比較氣憤

Have seen many comments online about how difficult to relate to Indian colleagues. I thought it’s a little prestigious until recently. I used to work with this guy in my previous company and he recently applied a job at my current company. I had not known him so well, except he seemed nice and technically strong. I interviewed him and recommended him. He joined us two weeks ago.

He wanted to carpool with me to work. Considering almost 30 miles each way and I didn’t think it’s a bad idea. So he drove for two days of a week when I didn’t have after work activity. It seems ok.

Next week, I drove three days. He came to my office and asked when to leave, I would say let’s go now. Then I dressed and was ready to go and went to his desk he was not packed yet. Then he would go to toilet and asked me waiting outside for him. I was thinking this didn’t worth the trouble at all and plan to not carpool again when this week ended. On Friday, he came to me and we agreed to leave in 10 mins. Like before I dressed and found he was talking with our boss. I waived at him, I waited a few munites, he was still talking with the boss. So it went for 30 minutes with me wearing a heavy coat and standing there visible from his angle. Finally he ended the conversation with boss. Of course, packed, put on coat and told me he needed to use the toilet again… ...

I told him, we would not carpool from now on. He said, “why? I thought we were doing so well”. I said: you think so? Then he started to apologize and said he did not want to say no to our boss. I said, I am sure he will be fine to continue the conversation tomorrow. it’s not urgent work related.

So this week I drive by myself. He stopped at my cube yesterday asked if he could pick me up and carpool. I said no. He said, well I know you are busy this week and how about we start carpool next week. I didn’t answer. At lunch he walked to me and ask me to go to lunch, I said I already had arrangement. Maybe next day.

I feel bad to reject to him, so today I asked him to go for lunch. He said he would meet me at café because his wife packed him lunch and he need to warm it. I bought my lunch downstairs and finished it without seeing him. Pretty much pissed off, I was on my way back to office, there he came. He told me he was waiting for our boss to join him. I said to him, “you are not very nice to me but definitely very nice to our boss. But you don’t have to let me eating alone just for waiting boss 20 mins THAT sort of nice”.

How could not I kiss a** like that? I just have too much pride and am too nice to ignore my colleague.

For sure, I am done with this guy.

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• He is just a typical indian guy -天天快樂嗎- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 10:52:58

• CO: He is just a typical indian guy -牧童遙指- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 10:55:02

• sigh... hate it. learned and will never -梅石瑩玉- ♀ (29 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 10:59:01

• 都是小事, 別太在意了. 你可能是那種比較自律的人, -牧童遙指- ♀ (336 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 10:54:35

• I already told him that's not very nice of him -梅石瑩玉- ♀ (130 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 10:58:18

• 消消氣,印度人盡量遠離,避不了就保持距離.真的很小人. -小蝦米- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:04:18

• 你住啦，印度人盡量遠離,避不了就保持距離.真的很小人. -梅石瑩玉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:07:16

• ????? -小蝦米- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:09:39

• 你住啦--》記住啦；） -梅石瑩玉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:17:03

• GOOD GIRL! -牧童遙指- ♀ (78 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:04:28

• 謝謝你，下線了，再會～ -梅石瑩玉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:07:47

• 老印做事很不上品,很讓人不屑. -小蝦米- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:08:12

• 其實你若不想carpool,找借口不難 -布衣之才- ♂ (77 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:09:36

• 高, 記下. 謝! -牧童遙指- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:14:09

• 隻是個簡單的原則 -布衣之才- ♂ (80 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:59:53

• 謝謝 -梅石瑩玉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:17:36

• 我覺得你是個很MEAN的人 -新北京混混- ♂ (360 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:29:49

• U should be proud that we chinse women still has self-respect -梅石瑩玉- ♀ (84 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:23:02

• My Hat Off To You -黃國人- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:29:12

• not sarcastically? ;) -梅石瑩玉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:30:41

• NO. You do the right thing !!! -黃國人- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:55:13

• One time is OK, but twice, it means no respect. -黃國人- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:58:07

• nod,nod. -梅石瑩玉- ♀ (130 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 16:11:37

• 在這路過看見自家mm，抱一個~~ -紫花花- ♀ (279 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:36:07

• "現在是不是在xxx工作" --> 餘香久久不能散去。 LOL -ryu,- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:54:01

• 回複：在這路過看見自家mm，抱一個~~ -梅石瑩玉- ♀ (284 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:18:21

• 我蠻喜歡印度佳麗的，因為她們有我喜歡吃的羊肉的味 -ryu,- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:26:31

• 俺以為您only喜歡eagle meat的說~~ -紫花花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:38:31

• 那不是學熊老說話嗎。要不我學熊老寫一兒歌給你 -ryu,- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:44:57

• 哈哈，看懂了，為妹妹難過；） -梅石瑩玉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:29:42

• 你高興就好，俺挺的住 ;) -紫花花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:39:57

• MM, look for another job. -bluevale- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:42:45

• 還好，俺剛打聽過了，今年香水流行curry味的，俺銀子都省啦 -紫花花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 14:49:05

• haha~~~,什麽時候我也去你們toilet見識一下！！ -撅著挺好- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 15:00:52

• 好，這麽不俗的品位, 俺門口收費~~ -紫花花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 15:20:19

• 你還等他半個小時，要我開車早走了，他愛怎麽回就怎麽會吧 -世界無童話- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 17:35:55

• I wanted to,擔心軟了就自己難過吧 -梅石瑩玉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 21:19:09

• 印度人不以騙人為恥,所以不要全部相信他們的話. 信50%而已. -acclaim2008- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 18:03:43

• I want to treated like I treated him, that's all -梅石瑩玉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 21:19:47

• You are a nice girl. All he wants is to take advantage of you. S -acclaim2008- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/21/2010 postreply 19:54:36