回複：上個星期我發飆了。

I think that you did right thing. It happened to my previous job and I got a little trouble by listening the complains and added a little my comments/opinion because the coworker complained me to other people immediately...

Even after I am out of the previous work place, she still tried to set up lunches with me. I like to catch up a little with my old coworkers. We had one lunch and she complained other coworkers during the whole lunch and tried to make me say something. I was quiet and she was not happy......Now, she invited me to have a lunch again and I kept postponing....Maybe I should just refuse her directly or not to reply her e-mail at all...Why not, she played double face to me.....

I am learning to say "No, Thanks!" sometimes....

I understand it is easier to say it than do it.

Good luck!

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• 回複：回複：上個星期我發飆了。 -本從- ♀ (501 bytes) () 12/06/2009 postreply 14:26:29

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• 回複：回複：回複：上個星期我發飆了。 -mylittlehome- ♀ (502 bytes) () 12/11/2009 postreply 14:28:24