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來源: Isthereaway 於 2009-11-18 19:04:31 [] [舊帖] [給我悄悄話] 閱讀數 : (767 bytes)

被現實情況壓的喘不上氣了,隻好上來冒個泡,請大家幫忙想辦法.先謝謝了!

我們已是人過中年,去年年底老公的公司關閉,他也隨之走人,迄今為止,他一直呆在家裏,上網接孩子.孩子也是老公自己要接的,本來可以不用他接的.我原來一直希望老公能夠全力找工作,接孩子做飯我都一個人可以做,但他似乎很願意分擔家務似的.看著他百無聊賴的樣子,我勸他出去走走,不管是去圖書館,或是別的與找工作有關的地方,甚至建議他開車出去轉轉,別整天呆在家裏上網.可是任憑我說破嘴皮,人家仍然是我行我素,在家上網.問他人家說在找網上工作.經常發牢騷說不知幹什麽好,年紀大了,改行也不行了(原來的方向不好),現在的經濟形勢不好,工作不好找,等等.給我的感覺是他在找借口.我雖然在上班,辦工資不高,加上孩子也大了,感覺到經濟上的壓力很大,可老公現在似乎很消沉,一點找工作的熱情都沒有.我怎樣才能幫他走出這個低穀,讓打起精神,趕快找到工作.

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• 理解你講的,男人就是累 -Isthereaway- ♀ 給 Isthereaway 發送悄悄話 (137 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:34:42

• 我會試試的 -Isthereaway- ♀ 給 Isthereaway 發送悄悄話 (76 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 20:35:10

• bring him here, let's work it out together! -撅著挺好- ♂ 給 撅著挺好 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:11:49

• 你是職場上的人 -Isthereaway- ♀ 給 Isthereaway 發送悄悄話 (73 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:31:18

• sorry, i always quit, never been laid off or fired..... -撅著挺好- ♂ 給 撅著挺好 發送悄悄話 (229 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:58:58

• 你真的很幸運，一定也很能幹。 -Isthereaway- ♀ 給 Isthereaway 發送悄悄話 (74 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 20:30:23

• You MUST get him out of the house, maybe, arrange -3-leg-man- ♂ 給 3-leg-man 發送悄悄話 (112 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:20:32

• 謝謝! -Isthereaway- ♀ 給 Isthereaway 發送悄悄話 (89 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:27:46

• what about talking him into taking some -3-leg-man- ♂ 給 3-leg-man 發送悄悄話 (167 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:37:18

• 回複：what about talking him into taking some -Isthereaway- ♀ 給 Isthereaway 發送悄悄話 (131 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:41:29

• From what I can tell, he's not made for management, he -3-leg-man- ♂ 給 3-leg-man 發送悄悄話 (223 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:47:55

• 回複：From what I can tell, he's not made for management, he -Isthereaway- ♀ 給 Isthereaway 發送悄悄話 (117 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:51:27

• there's no such a thing of 低不就. He is what he is right now, -3-leg-man- ♂ 給 3-leg-man 發送悄悄話 (197 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:59:49

• 那就是他的mindset. -Isthereaway- ♀ 給 Isthereaway 發送悄悄話 (36 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 20:24:57

• Please do NOT add more pressure on him. -wxwxwxw- ♂ 給 wxwxwxw 發送悄悄話 (39 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 21:00:27

• 讓他別找了，自己辦公司當老板，啥賺錢幹啥。 -wxwxwxw- ♂ 給 wxwxwxw 發送悄悄話 (16 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 20:03:00

• 同意你講的,隻是不知道現在什麽生意好 -Isthereaway- ♀ 給 Isthereaway 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 20:23:38

• try ebay -3-leg-man- ♂ 給 3-leg-man 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 20:24:56

• 別提了。 -Isthereaway- ♀ 給 Isthereaway 發送悄悄話 (83 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 20:27:28

• I wonder if he had ever thought to set up his own business -wxwxwxw- ♂ 給 wxwxwxw 發送悄悄話 (525 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 21:08:18

• 他有病了，要看醫生。 -眼冒金星- ♂ 給 眼冒金星 發送悄悄話 眼冒金星 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 21:24:47

• Not necessarily. Just have low mood. It will be fine. -wxwxwxw- ♂ 給 wxwxwxw 發送悄悄話 (53 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 21:51:26

• Leave him alone, give him a break. -oops_yz- ♀ 給 oops_yz 發送悄悄話 (43 bytes) () 11/19/2009 postreply 05:32:37

• We are on the same boat! -MyID89- ♀ 給 MyID89 發送悄悄話 (1606 bytes) () 11/19/2009 postreply 10:02:02

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