"結果有個女同事X(對我已經有看法的),比我工作時間長,也申請了這個項目,但沒得到。 有一天突然叫住我,問我management team 是按照什麽條件來決定誰做這個項目(態度就像審訊)。我告訴她:criteria 都在會議的handout上,如果她有疑問,應該問management team 。"
-- Hey X, You know it was not my decision.
-- Go ask the upper level management if you really want find out the truth.
-- I do not feel comfortable when you ask me questions in this way, I really want to see you make improvement on this point.
"結果,她說她不願意去問,然後重複問我那個問題,接著說她自己工作做的有多好,另一個人不如她,卻被錄取了。"
-- Too bad to hear about this.
-- Wish you good luck next time.
"現在我該怎麽辦? 我想寫個電子郵件給supervisor 說明X的行為隻是unprofessional, 我不覺得是 harrassment. 但是又怕得罪她. 都想辭職了,可是現在這個經濟形勢... 想請大家幫我出出主意. 是不是還有更好的辦法? 先謝謝了"
-- Please do not resign for such reaseon, this is no reason to do that.
-- Yes, write the email use your comman sense.
-- Be strong!