Don't worry. Tens of thousands people are doing just that

1. It might not be a good idea for your hubby to work in the same company which you are in. Too risky. What if both of you get laidoff at the same time?

2. Green card is not that hard to get if you play your cards right. It depends on a plethora of things, first of which is your background. A good lawyer or an understanding boss can make the difference between heaven and hell.

3. You can always go back to China, where opportunities are still abound.

4. Family means no one gets left behind or forgotten. As long as your family stay together, there would be happiness and hope for all.

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