米國公司雜草多, 生存策略要靈活. 集思廣益戰斜惡, 別想辭職瞎琢磨.

畢業後找到現在這份工作,剛做了3個多月,覺得來自老板和同事的壓力很大,想向大家討點主意。
-- Don't be too serious, it is just a work.
-- Glad you are trusting the XDJM at here, they all can help!


我是做數據分析的,剛開始是同事A培訓我,她和我一樣的TITLE,也和我同一個辦公室,已經在這個部門工作了3年。
-- Nice to know you are a Database Analyst!
-- Good job!
-- You can do the job till you are old, if you like.


剛開始覺得A挺熱情,但後來發現不是那麽回事。
-- 米國公司雜草和毒蛇很多,現在你知道了.

在我還沒培訓完,A就把一個很重要的,我都不懂怎麽弄的活轉給我,在DEADLINE的那個星期度假去了。我隻好對老板說明,老板就讓K在度假前幫我把數據處理完。結果這件事,老板覺得我和A溝通不好,沒有TEAMWORK。
-- ok, based on this story, A is not a good guy. Be highly alerted! Treat A as a 雜草和毒蛇.

A不懂CODING,在我來之前,她都是找另外2個PROGRAMMER幫忙寫CODE,完成老板交給的任務。那2個PROGRAMMER和A的 TITLE完全不一樣的,要完成老板交的活,需要什麽資料,A都會全力幫助去找。
-- 雜草就是這樣.

現在我來了,知道在新係統上寫CODE,但對生成數據的舊係統不了解,不知道是不是這個原因讓A把我當成了競爭對手。
-- Great to know you are technically strong!
-- What is the new system?
-- What is old system?
-- Yes, A is worried tht you have better skill set.


現在的情況就是老板給A的活,她就拿老板的名頭壓著我給她寫CODE,
-- OK. Then you cc his/her email to boss.
-- And you talk this to boss during 1 on 1;
-- And you ask Boss credit the task to you, NOT to A. Tell boss you are doing this task, NOT A.


但老板給我的活,需要哪些資料,去哪找,A就不幫忙,或者說不知道,或者瞎說。
-- clearly tell A:
A:, we work together as a team. Remember I helped you many many times on coding the useless stuff for me (but very useful for you). You are the old guy at here, I need you help to tell me where the information is, I hope you can help me as I helped you. This will make everybody easier.


老板就覺得我幹活慢,幹得不好。我反映了我遇到的困難,老板根本不管,就說這些你得自己解決。
-- Now you know not all the boss are as good as you think.
-- OK, forget it and try to solve yourself.


另外A在老板麵前很能說,老板很信任她,說我第一個要完成的是老板的任務,然後第二要完成的就是A交待給我的任務。我夾在她們之間真是難受。
-- Yes, the first priority is BOSS's task.
-- Because I have so many first priority task, I have to finish it. You have to wait until I finish Boss's Tasks then work on yours.
-- However, you better focus on do yours, please don't rely on my to do your job. YES, YOU DO YOUR JOB. DON'T RELY ON MY TO DO YOUR JOB. I AM GLAD TO HELP, BUT, THAT WILL BE MY SECOND PRIORITY.
-- 她/他國能說, 咱也要能說. 不要光瞎幹活.


再來說說我們老板,人很厲害,說話不留情麵。在我來之前,她把辦公室裏工作了幾十年的幾個前輩,3個給氣走了,另外一個被迫退休了,隻有2個留下了。老板總是對我說,有什麽事情不懂可以問。我真要問她了,她就說這是小事,你得自己解決,這是你的工作,不要拿這些事來煩我。可是我真要不問她,按著我的想法做了,她也還會跳出來問我為什麽不向她報告,或者說我做得不對。反正就是怎麽做她總是不滿意。我都不知道應該怎麽跟她相處。
-- Skepe me, we can talk about this.

覺得自己一直是個好相處的人,也沒想過要和A爭什麽,和另外人相處也還好,但就是覺得來自老板和A的壓力大,覺得每天上班是個煎熬,都想辭職不幹了,是不是這樣辭職對找下一份工作不好?老公讓我堅持6個月,好歹有點工作經驗,才好找下一份工作,你們覺得怎樣呢?
-- Stay in the job, take it easy.
-- Skype me if you need more help


羅嗦那麽多,請大家幫忙出點主意。謝謝了!

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