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回答: 回複:I really want to quit.shizhenxin032009-03-03 10:19:16

Q: What a frank suggestion it is! I agree that my English is not so perfect that I can joke with my boss and express myself in the way I want. Please provide more suggestions on the effective communication. I am really interested in knowing more.
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A: This is not a frank suggestion. Communication Skills are not English Skills. They are two concepts. I hope you can realize the difference. There is nothing related to joking with others. By the way, my English is poor also.

Please try to think from your supervisor and understand him/her. Have some candid conversation and exchange your thoughts in a positive atmosphere with honest attitude.
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Q: By the way, every thing/person has double sides. I guess that I may not be my boss' favorite employee, so I deserve to work as a labor instead of an analyst.
But what can I do?

A: I asked you do not assume in advance. What you think will have big impact on what will happen.
What you can do? please think it over and only you know that. This is a very good time for you to improve yourself. Please not complain. I can understand the frustration.
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Q: I am willing to back off and try not to irritate him as long as I can be in a peaceful environment.My retreat only makes him demand more from me.

A: Escape is not a solution. We must face any difficulties in our life. Whenever we encounter difficulties, face them and resolve them.

Trying avoid him is a bad choice.
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Q: Nobody deserve that! Also I am new in this group and my expertise isn't so important to my group. I am very sure how long I can stay in that group. That's why I want to quit instead of staying there. :(

A: I still see your emotion.
If you can not help them, they will let you go. I disagree with many people that they are very intelligent or smart or very important to the group or the organization they work for.
If you have other choices, I think anyone including your supervisor will be happy to see that.

Finally, what will happen in near future does not have much impact to your whole life. Your happiness and future are still in your hands. Please not worry about anything. Your future is still bright!

I hope my words is helpful. If not, please just forget it. Best Wishes.

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