If I find a job here, what if her visa gets rejected? I have to quit and go back to China.
If I find a job in China, what if her visa gets granted? Shall we stay in China or come back to US again?
Things are complicated because of the stupid visa check. I personally slightly prefer to go back to China mainly because of my parents, I am a single child and they may need me since they are getting old.
But she slightly prefer to US. She has a pretty good job (in IT) and she is very skillful/capable.她經常戲稱我是我們家最大的負擔,嗬嗬,有點對。But I am so tired of immigration issues, 不想再來個八年抗戰拿個綠卡(我們來美國兩年,綠卡才剛開始申請),但是我也沒把握是否能在中國找到合適的工作。我如果回國的話主要是為了父母。也無數次問自己為了父母而放棄在國外的生活是否應該/值得。我媽媽來過美國住了一年,他們肯定是不能適應這兒的,我也覺得我遲早要回中國離他們近些。兒子才4歲,但是居然不喜歡美國的幼兒園(大概是他不習慣說英語吧)。他是那種貪玩不愛學習的家夥,也許美國的教育更適合他。當找工作與移民和其他親人問題交織在一起時,困惑也多多了。
既然雲河姐問到了,俺也想聽聽大家的看法,希望大家積極踴躍發言。謝謝。