這一問就把“矛盾“清晰化了. This is also what I did. One question makes conflicts clear and causes more trouble. OF cause I did foresee the upcoming trouble. But at the moment it was hard to control myself when provoked.
能幹、順眼、態度積極的團隊成員 is almost not possible. I totally agree with you. To be competent, one has to get over the ones who do not deliver their work. Then conflicts come easily. Maybe the solution is to imcompetent so that I can be a 順眼、態度積極的團隊成員, and thus a "competent" one who can't deliver.