When we decide move from Dallas TX to Silicon Valley, 俺家娃 argued with me for thousand reasons of NOT moving.
However, now, many years later, 娃 told me it was a right choice.
There is no place is perfect.
Life are full of ups and downs.
If you guys can earn a paycheck in NJ, stay in there.
Otherwise, be happy to move to CA.
It is a good experience for your son...
Thanks!