謝謝薇薇！正想給你發信問你為啥不參加呢！

Reserving judgments is a matter of infinite hope我覺得不是一生準則的意思，我理解的是Reserving judgments is because I still have infinite hope for others' behavior, and I am still hopeful that my judgments about them are premature, they still have some explanation, or they will redeem themselves in some way.

snobbish-->不屑一顧？覺得不太確切。