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Note: A friend sent me the following essay a long time ago. I revised a little and posted here for sharing.
女人喜歡浪漫和溫情，男人也是；女人需要敏感而富有想象力的情侶，男人也是；女人願意接受愛情，男人也是；女人容易動搖，男人也是。那麽，什麽樣的女人是有魅力的呢？
女性的魅力在於她的自信，感受到自我價值；舉止大方得體，泰然自若；機智而靈活，善於體察男人的願望和心理；健康，嫵媚和有親和力。
女性不必非有漂亮的容貌和性感的身材，因為漂亮的臉蛋和優美的身段決定不了女人的命運。怎樣才能顯得充滿女性的特征呢？簡單說來，就是讓你的身體自然放鬆，你越是隨其自然，你就越能充分地顯示出女性的魅力。
男人並不一定喜歡相貌和身材都很出眾的美人，他們更喜歡那些能不斷完善自己，隨著時間的推移，越發體現出真正魅力的完美女性。
如果你問一百個男人，“什麽是女性的魅力？”他們中可能有九十九人會這樣回答你：“自信。”他們確實並不在乎女性是否非常漂亮，是不是絕代佳人。他們更喜歡那些對自我和身體感覺良好的女性。一位男人這樣表露他的觀點：“真正具有女性特征的人，是知道自己理所當然地會被男人愛慕的人。”
Good point, Xin Ran.
I agree with you. Having faith in him/herself would build him/her inner strength to attract others.
I guess every woman has her own answers to this question.
In my opinion, a charming man can be
1. a man who is trustworthy and reliable.
2. a man who always has something that I am looking for.( not all the women want money, a laughter, a surprise, a helping hand might be enough)
3. a man who has values he is holding on in life.
In general, no matter whether you are a man or a woman, always be true to yourself, just being yourself is the simplest way to attract people who is holding similar values with you in life.
Maybe "自然些”is the way to say in Chinese!
As a matter of fact, it was sent my a male friend of mine. :-)
So what do you think a charming man should look like? :-) You brought up the question, and I am looking forward the answer now. :-)
This topic should be men's topic. -“什麽是女性的魅力？”
I may give my input on -“什麽是男性的魅力？”：）
That is my project too. We will graduate for sure. But be patient first.
I wish I said it. :-)
Good point, Lindows. Then what do you think about female's charm? :-))) Which category do you belong? How many categories do you divide? ...
Too many questions? :-)))
嘿嘿~~ 隨便說的，別太當真！