朋友如書

(感謝lindows友情惠贈！)

人的一生不可以沒有朋友，沒有朋友就好比天空沒有了太陽，讓人生沒有溫暖一樣。在我心目中，朋友是上帝賜予我最好的禮物，所以，我總懷著一顆感恩的心，感謝上帝讓我認識了人生路上的許多朋友們！　　
　　
　　《劄記》中寫道：“與君子遊，如入芝蘭之室，久而不聞其香，則與之化矣。”可以說是道出了朋友的真諦。好友如一冊好書，在這部書中最能讀出生活的種種樂趣。生活中我們常常會為一些事所困擾，此時與三五好友相聚，讓朋友們的談笑風生驅散你心中的陰霾，讓他們的幽默與風趣使你開懷大笑，讓你從消沉中振奮起來，重新用微笑去麵對生活的每一天！　　
　　
　　我們有時與好友交往不需要用很多語言，隻消一個眼神、一個手勢，一個握手足矣。好友是用心靈感受的一種默契與相知，許多時候我們或許更願意沉浸在那種“無聲勝有聲”的意境裏，去感受著彼此那份深深的友情，去體會著彼此那份濃濃的關懷。　　
　　
　　真正的朋友在相交時大多不帶功利性，而是用心靈去感悟、去品味的一種真摯情感。它是一種淡如水、濃若醇的友情，好比久存的老酒愈久彌香。朋友相處不是相互利用，而是有難時真心的相幫，你不求回報卻能在遇難之時得到傾心的相助。在我們生命的曆程中，能分享朋友的快樂是一種享受，能分擔朋友的痛苦則是一種幸福，讀書貴在用心，讀書並不單單是為了書中的“顏如玉”、“黃金屋”，而是為了充實自已，積累知識。同樣友情也必須用心去維護。它容不得欺騙、受不得虛偽，連接朋友情感的紐帶是真誠、尊重與寬容。隻有對好友付出自已真誠與友愛，才能收獲友情的溫暖與幸福。　
　　
　　真正成功的人生應是善於發現朋友，讓自已去認識真正值得一交的好友，隻有以心換心才能贏得真正的友情。朋友貴在知心，子期與伯牙的知已之交流傳百世，正是因為知心難得才顯得彌足珍貴！
　　
　　朋友如書。有的朋友內心如山花般爛漫，感覺是生動引人的小人書；有的朋友豪情滿懷壯誌淩雲，感覺是武俠小說；有的朋友低幽深情如潺潺流水，感覺是抒情性散文；有的朋友細語款述不見人麵但聞竹聲，感覺是一篇小品文字；有的朋友想象力極強，與之交流，恍惚天上人間任你遊，這樣的朋友應該是一首難得的詩篇；還有的朋友身世坎坷卻有著極為強大的內心向上的力量，仿佛一部耐讀的小說。　
　　
　　好好地珍惜好友這本書，隨時打開它讀一讀那動人的章節，品味書中那感人的情懷，相信這本書一定不會讓你失望的，朋友如書！

[melly]

haha.... Helen, it is not an assignment at all. See, you like taking responsibilities. hehe..

Thank you, dear. I am really honored by your good words. you have decorated me a lot. Guess what? I have never had a friend like you, so ambitious, so sharp, so delicate, so straightforward, so brave and so tough.(can't think more, will add later). You are very special to me. Actually, I learned and will keep learning from you. You are like a very intriguing and enjoyable thick book, which deserves to read slowly and carefully.

So stay tune.

[blhw72]

Good question. I remember, at the very beginning when you sent me the first msg, we just clicked each other and mutually initated the journey of our friendship.

It's wonderful that the journey so far has been pleasant.

I have to admit, I barely read books because I am restless. LOL. Since medical school, I no longer wanted to read long story for I'd been buried in thick and big medical books.

Honey, it's a bit hard for me to accurately define you as what kind of book. I only heard your voice and saw your writing. However, I'd like to give a try.

As I've seen in you, you are an exquisite book with a freshing and lucid cover. In the early pages, you were revealed unadorned, indifferent and calm. You appeared a simple but elegant one.
As I've seen in you deeper. Surprisingly, such a tiny thing contains amazing potential and passion and sentiments, as a volcano. On the other hand, the insights you provided pleased and astonished me that you'd just read my mind.

Mostly, in you, the strive perseverance and tenacity for sth you had belief in life and are pursuing in life, touched my heart. While you said I was tough, it is a shame that actually I am not as strong as you think.

The book of your definitely intrigued and delighted me. It keeps me there continually to read......

Alright, Melly lao shi, happy with my work for your assignment? ;-)

[melly]

回複blhw72的評論:

This one is very beautiful, like a poem, isn't it?

What kind of book am I like? xoxo

[blhw72]

Bravo!