下麵討論錄取名校是否報喜,不用顧慮別人怎麽想，看看我對女兒說的

我和女兒最近的交流：

我觀察女兒應該幹脆果斷做決定時猶豫不快，總想麵麵俱到，讓所有人都滿意.

這是我告訴她的，尊重別人是對的，but it's impossible to make everyone happy all the time, just do what you think is right. 不用在乎所有人的感受.

生活中各人教育，文化和家庭背景都不一樣，認知也不同，不會都讚同或理解你的理念，so be it.

就像微信朋友圈，有人會屏蔽我，do I care? Not for a single second. 尊重別人的選擇but My life is for my own happiness, not anyone else's. As long as I have a good group of friends who share the same mindset, that's enough.