Over the past weekend, I heard Jim Winkler shared his personal stories.
He loved playing tennis from a very young age. One day he played with his friend and he lost the game to his friend. He came home and complained to his dad.
His dad: How was the game?
Him: I lost. You don't know my situation. The wind was pretty strong. Every ball I hit it got into the net.
His dad thought a bit and said: Amazing, it's very amazing
Him: why amazing?
His Dad: Because your friend didn't have any wind today.
He said ever since that time. He never complained losing a tennis game to his dad. He just worked hard and try to find the issue and work on it!
發現自己也是這樣。有時總在找理由,最後一分鍾有人找,所以出來晚了;昨晚被這個電視劇吸引過去了,所以今天起不來;今天的雪道太冰了,所以滑得不爽;等等。也許心底就不願意先承認,今天做得不好。下次要再多加15%預測的交通時間,有麽有自己在10:30後關掉電視;關鍵要麵對自己的錯誤,從這裏開始改。
我們每人都會遇到不同的挑戰,我們自己有很多習慣,但要從一點點小事開始,找到自身的原因,努力改進,才會有進步。
寫下這個記錄鼓勵自己。
2019-04-21