“我信你信到腳指頭” 你是這樣的爸媽嗎？

Friday和小朋友又看了一遍“麥兜，我和我的媽媽”，仍然是笑著哭到最後～～小朋友們還不能理解爸媽的眼淚，隻知道麥兜媽媽死了，上太空了。你如果看過的話一定記得麥兜媽媽的話：“全世界的人不愛你，我也會愛你；全世界的人不信你，我也會信你；我愛你愛到心肝裏，我信你信到腳指頭”。

你有沒有問過自己，你有這麽相信你的孩子嗎？他們相信我們嗎？我必須先自我反省一下：我家老大有點毛糙，三天兩頭打碎東西撞傷自己，但老二卻截然相反。有一次我買了幾個漂亮的茶杯，小朋友們立刻要拿來用，我先遞了一個給老二，老大看著我說我也要，我說你要可以但要保證不摔了，老大傷心地看著我說，媽媽我知道的！然後可憐巴巴小心翼翼地拿過去～這下看得我也傷心了，不就是個杯子嗎？還有一天，我告訴老大，你長大了，明天開始早上你自己決定穿什麽衣褲，媽媽不管。結果第二天人家高高興興穿好下樓了，興奮的告訴我，媽媽，我自己穿的！我一看，她選了一件看上去髒兮兮的舊短袖（洗不掉）和一條短嘰嘰的運動褲，我立刻就受不了了，要求她去換，她說，媽媽你不是說讓我自己決定嗎？我最喜歡這衣服，很舒服！對啊～我知道我要說話算話，可是有時候忍不住有木有？！還有很多啦是不是？

所以今天要和大家分享一下如何來信任我們的寶貝們:

Trust them to be themselves

Trust them to go their own way

Turst them to stumble sometimes

Trust them to fail on their own

Trust them to define success for themselves

Trust them to be bored and figure it out themselves

Trust them when they say the don't need a coat to go out

Trust them to be able to form their own opinions

Trust them to know what's best for themselves

Trust them to set their own pace

Trust them to follow their own interest

Trust them with their secrets

Trust them to let you know what's going on with them

Trust them when they say sometime is a big deal

Trust them by telling them the truth