我的中學班主任--徐老師

我算是運氣不好，碰上這位中學班主任徐老師。我隻和她相處了一年就上體校去了。然而，班裏近70名同學與她在一起整整5年，有些同學被徐老師深深地傷害了。直到2000年以後徐老師病危時，班裏多數同學才選擇原諒她。

徐老師畢業於大連的一所大學，學的是生物。學生時期被打成右派，後來被摘了帽子稱作“摘帽右派”，那段經曆對她的性格產生了多大影響不得而知。

徐老師有30%的時間熱情似火，在班裏組織生物小組，油畫小組（不是她的本職工作），督導有潛力的同學努力學習。但是70%時間裏臉色陰沉，情緒不穩，喜怒無常。挖苦，訓斥同學們是家常便飯。

徐老師還有其它怪癖。她見不得女同學打扮的漂漂亮亮，比如，褲子衣服腰身緊了一點，略有一點高跟的皮鞋，稍稍卷燙的頭發等等都會招來她的猛烈批評。“像個女流氓！”是徐老師用過最多的詞匯。林林總總不一而足。

奇怪的是徐老師對熱愛體育，活潑上進的男同學們也不喜歡，毫無理由地阻撓同學們參加體育活動和校運動隊的訓練比賽。為了不讓她用“影響學習”為由幹涉我參加校隊活動。我總是公公正正地提前交作業，還是打動不了徐老師。

一年以後我選擇了離開。體校的3年時間，我的學業是徹底的荒廢了。後來我人生中的學術方麵一直缺乏根基，走得跌跌撞撞，底氣不足。我是那個班裏最幸運的人，唯一考上77級大學的。

我們班當時是那所中學的4個高中班裏，恢複高考後考上大學人數最少的一個班。僅此一點，同學們的怨氣就再也不能平息了。

其實，徐老師在班裏還是有所顧忌的，她在家裏更是霸道。我父母和徐老師的丈夫幾十年前在東北鞍山就認識，一個儒雅寬厚的湖南籍工程師。徐老師在家裏把丈夫修理的服服帖帖，她這些表現在當地都是家喻戶曉的事情。徐老師夫婦有一個和我二哥同歲的兒子，在家裏坐也不是，站也不是，飽受徐老師修理。人長得像一株豆芽菜，精神上萎靡一點也不陽光。

學校裏曾經組織學工勞動，同學們步行往返於工廠和學校。徐老師的兒子體弱，回程時走不動了。他央求著搭乘上了一架馬車，上車後由於疲勞，很快就睡著了。兒子在睡夢中從馬車上摔下來，造成鎖骨粉碎性骨折。

徐老師路上遇到一位同學的母親，她向這位女士抱怨兒子的不幸遭遇。同學的母親正沒好氣，說道：我兒子從飛機上掉下來都沒事！


 

[coach1960]

I was deeply moved by your story. We wouldn't be the same person today without those teachers who loved us with whole-hearts in the those days!

Thanks for sharing your early life experience with me.

[alsoRun]

To have a good teacher in elementary or middle school is indeed very important. Looking back, I was lucky to have two middle school teachers who believed in me in the darkest years of the Cultural Revolution in spite of my father's "history problem". My first year in the middle school, my whole class took a long (15 KM) trip to a 革命烈士陵 and some students were scheduled to be sworn in as a young pioneering member. I did not know if I would be one of them. But I was, thanks to these two teachers.

When my (female) math teacher left my school to marry an army soldier in 1973, I had tears in my eyes. In 1974, my father was reassigned work and I left to live with him in another county. My Chinese teacher asked me to go to his dorm, where he presented me with a red notebook. Yes, I could still remember the sad expression in his face till this day.

I guess that I am a lucky man. I love you, my teachers.