The best advice from my VP boss was: "Sometimes, you better dodge the bullet, keep moving on. Sometime, You got to fight. You may lose if you fight. If you don't, you never succeed. But, you got Pick up a right fight - fight through to succeed. "
How can you do that? As Obama fought back to Hillary Clinton's knowledge and experience:
Judgment is more important than knowledge and experience. But, how to judge spatiotemporal information? by instinct? by experience? by prayers?
The first step to silencing the negative voice in your head is to take control of your thoughts. If the thought is not a fact, replace it with the truth.
成功的第一要素，就是知道哪些rules是可以break的. 如果遵守一切rules，一輩子必定平平庸庸。如果break the wrong rules，那就會栽進監獄。所以學會有選擇地break rules，才能成功。(The first element of success is to know which rules are breakable. If you follow all the rules, you will have to be mediocre in your life. If you break the wrong rules, you will be put in jail. So learn to break rules selectively to be successful.)
Mao Zedong said "play a right punch to avoid a hundred punches". How to hit the punch? Need to know where to hit! If you make a mistake, you can't get it back. "
Quasi, steady, and awkward. Li Ka-shing "It is more important to clear your mind than to sell hard work. It is more important to choose the right direction than to work hard."
That's true, given two cases, below.
@AdamMGrant When we seek advice, we rarely want to be told which option to choose. We're usually seeking guidance on how to approach the decision. The best advice doesn't specify what to do. It highlights blind spots in our thinking and helps us clarify our priorities."
我的副總裁老板最好的建議是：“你必須打架。如果你打架，你可能會失敗。如果你不這樣做，你就永遠不會成功。但是，你得到正確的戰鬥 - 爭取成功。”
你怎麽能這樣做？ 奧巴馬回擊希拉裏克林頓的知識和經驗：
判斷比知識更重要。
毛爺那 “打得一拳開，躲得百拳來”，打那一拳? 必要識何處打去! 打錯就收不回來了。"傷十指, 不如斷其一指,"
準、穩、狠。李嘉誠 "思路清晰賣苦力更重要, 選對方向比努力更重要。"
這是真的，給出兩個案例，下麵。
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如果遵守一切rules，一輩子必定平平庸庸。
如果break the wrong rules，那就會栽進監獄。
所以學會有選擇地break rules，才能成功。-
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2018-08-30 07:12:39 
俺早就說了，天朝選錯了敵人。
鄧大人說，凡是和美國...，凡是和美國...
鄧大人比 current government強多了。
美帝作為世界唯一的超強，不可能被外敵打敗或超越，除非自己內亂分裂。但其民主體製讓普通民眾的不滿有宣泄的出口，讓反對派有通過正常渠道實現自己政治抱負的手段，所以雖然內部爭吵，但目前完全看不到分裂的可能。
而獨裁極權國家雖然看似上下同心，但發生政變的可能性極大。隻要幹掉幾個人，一群奴才不管誰坐上龍椅，都會山呼萬歲
• 三弟，你還得服毛爺，不是毛爺那“打得一拳開，躲得百拳來”，什麽鄧大人，習老哥還奢談什麽凡是如何，就單等著洋槍隊吧 -農業磚家- ♂ 
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• 一個人，不靠父母，在國外打拚站穩腳跟，一個字 “讚”！！！ -cowpi- ♂
