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"而我認為反正是不能和自己過不去,不能跟別人較勁還同時跟自己較勁,讓我們共勉吧。
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60歲是生命中的一道坎?
2018-06-13 07:57:05
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認識的幾個朋友,絕大多數是男性,在60歲不到的時候,由於各種疾病,就撒手人寰了。我沒去查統計數據,是否這個年齡段的人比較容易得病,但我覺得周圍發生的事,也許是偶然,但能說明一定的問題。
人在從中年步入老年時,身體機構一定在發生某些巨大變化,這個時期非常容易疾病纏身,我不懂醫,隻是憑著一些感覺。這就如同前兩天被拉去參加jury duty,雖然不太想前去,但我知道每個公民是要履行社會義務的,逃避是絕對行不通的。當時聽到法官問一個人問題:如果一個警察和一個修車的說你的車裏的某個零件壞了,你更信誰的話?那人回答:當然信修車人的。法官露出滿意的笑容。這個問題對成年人來說看似可笑,可是法官看的是你這人是否有common sense. 在我們55人中,法官和律師要選出十幾個人來參加當天的庭審,所以要問些問題。我知道所有被拉去參加jury duty 的人都不是學法律的,就是需要我們的common sense, 也就是說發自本能的好的判斷能力。
工作勞累,生活和飲食習慣是會造成人的壽命的長短,但是我認為外因隻是起到了催化作用,而內因是起到了決定性作用。有朋友得骨髓癌去世,在美帝這麽好的醫療條件下,病愈康複,可是一年後還是複發走了,沒能到達60歲。癌症是各個年齡段都能得的病,可周圍去世的人,都是不到60歲,基本上得的是癌症。當今社會,老年癡呆發病率也在大大地提前,我以前覺得這種病,七老八十才會得,可我的想法有些以偏概全了。我過去的一個同事,她的丈夫是我這個州的大法官,可在55,56歲時得了老年癡呆,本來是個很有前途的法官,不得不揮淚離開了工作崗位。更不幸的是,這個同事在丈夫確診得病後不久,發現自己得了乳腺癌,在經過幾年的治療後,最近走了,她隻有60來歲,留下了一個得老年癡呆的丈夫。
在父親節來臨之際,我說這些似乎不吉利,應該吃吃喝喝,高高興興地慶祝節日,可是,節日是慶祝不完的,就看我們有多少命能參加這些節日了。人生無常,放下那些虛無縹緲的東西,雖然不能信奉好死不如賴活著,這句千百年來流傳下來的名言,但是,有什麽比生命更可貴的東西呢。人生不如意事十之八九,不追求完美,隻追求心中的快樂,是今後我在有限的生命中的寫照。無法追求生命的長度,就隻能增加生命的寬度,至於這個寬度怎麽個增加法,那是仁者見仁,智者見智的事,而我認為反正是不能和自己過不去,不能跟別人較勁還同時跟自己較勁,讓我們共勉吧。
每天一講 發表評論於 2018-06-13 10:33:07
小康,癡呆症和老年癡呆症是有區別的,後者更為嚴重。
前幾天去老美朋友家玩,朋友和我有23年的友誼,在上海時就認識了,她說她現在68歲了,兒孫滿堂,家境也很好,下個月又要到北歐去玩了,但是她說她現在容易忘記事情,也擔心會得老年癡呆症。
癌症各個年齡段都有,我兄弟的妹妹是護士去年辭掉了在兒童醫院的工作,因為心理上無法忍受這麽小的孩子得癌症。
我們這些身體健康的人比起那些病人實在是太幸運和幸福了。
康賽歐 發表評論於 2018-06-13 10:30:20
回複 '菲兒天地' 的評論 : 謝謝!
菲兒天地 發表評論於 2018-06-13 10:19:39
回複 '吃出健康' 的評論 : +珍惜,關愛自己的生命。
康賽歐 發表評論於 2018-06-13 10:10:46
回複 '吃出健康' 的評論 : 你對未來很樂觀,欣賞你的好心態!
吃出健康 發表評論於 2018-06-13 10:06:53
同意你的觀點,六十歲就是生命中的一道坎,闖過去了,一般活七八十歲沒有問題。你分析的很有道理。
康賽歐 發表評論於 2018-06-13 10:02:47
回複 '杜鵑盛開' 的評論 : 好像是,謝謝來訪!
康賽歐 發表評論於 2018-06-13 10:02:08
回複 'yy56' 的評論 : 你的心態真好!
杜鵑盛開 發表評論於 2018-06-13 09:35:41
我知道的生大病的,基本都是40幾歲的年紀。好像聽說這個年紀最脆弱。生命無常,珍惜眼前。
yy56 發表評論於 2018-06-13 09:05:27
到了這個年齡,就要重新調整自己,以“和為貴”,和自己的身體講和,和周圍的人和事講和。
康賽歐 發表評論於 2018-06-13 08:39:33
回複 '曉青' 的評論 : 說的真好!
曉青 發表評論於 2018-06-13 08:35:11
是啊,好多人60多歲生大病。真是健康第一。
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Black Field | |
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Directed by | Vardis Marinakis |
Written by | Vardis Marinakis |
Starring | Christos Passalis Sofia Georgovassili |
Cinematography | Marcus Waterloo |
Edited by | Yannis Chalkiadakis |
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104 |
Country | Greece |
Language | Greek |
Black Field (Greek: Μα?ρο Λιβ?δι) is a Greek film, directed by Vardis Marinakis. The film released in 2009 and it stars Sofia Georgovassili and Christos Passalis. It won one award in Hellenic Film Academy Awards in category Best Cinematography. The film also won accolades in Mumbai International Film Festival[1] and Seville European Film Festival.[2] The film is shot in the places of Epirus and Thessaly.
In 1654 in Greece under Ottoman rule, a solitary janissary collapses from his wounds outside an isolated Orthodox monastery for women. The nuns take him in and one with medical skills, Areti, tends him with the help of another, the young and shy Anthi. Both are fascinated by the presence of a man and, as he recovers, Areti starts an affair with him while Anthi has conflicting emotions. Learning that he is a deserter with a price on his head, the nuns realise that they dare not hide him and inform the authorities. As a contingent of soldiers arrives to collect him, Anthi escapes with him and the two go on the run. In the woods, a dark secret comes out. Anthi is in fact a boy, who was hidden in the monastery to avoid the devsirme, the kidnapping of Orthodox children by the Ottomans as recruits for the army. Initially disgusted, the soldier slowly builds up a comradeship with the gauche lad but one day they are recaptured. Anthi is taken back to the monastery, where Areti is pregnant and hangs herself in despair. Anthi runs away and rejoins the janissary, who has killed his captors. The two go off into the woods again.[3][4]
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