睡龍床鑽狗洞

Example #1: (Ref. 1)

George H. Bush, said in GOP debate, Reagan just an actor, while Reagan commented, George Bush was born with silver spoon in his mouth, as evident as below.

((When asked when was the last time he met poor people. George H. Bush said: 他上學私家專車司機上衫衣紐扣不對齊, 一邊高, 一邊低 He went to school with his private car driver chauffer - his uniform shirt buttons were not aligned, with one side high, the other side low. Bush laughing hysterically, "the chauffer looks so funny, ha, ha, ha ..." All of us audience were wondering ...how much he knew about poor people ...

當被問到他最後一次遇到窮人的時候。 他說：他上私人專車司機上衣衣紐扣不對齊，一邊高，一邊低。他上了私家車司機學校 - 他的製服襯衫紐扣沒有對齊，一邊高，另一邊低。))

So, Bush paid the price for his scolding remark, as the GOP establishment forced Reagan to pick him up as VP - Reagan later treated him as a dog, bullying and running him around global trips - check out all the books on their relationship. Nancy Reagan never invited Bushes couple into their house!

That's a real example for 睡龍床鑽狗洞 - got through tough, bouncing up the No. 1

Yeah. Don't lose respect: as it's mutual !

Example #2 -  http://blog.wenxuecity.com/myblog/57970/201805/17425.html

雪子（日本人）也台灣人. 林克敏報社長 (因言獲罪)、蔣景星（師長; 女兒雯）、裴 (上海兵站站長）、

子彈穿膛過、花錢買官做!

三兄弟 (蘇台昌、英、傑、)與雯的信物:草結螞蚱

#32, 蔣景星是一潭養不活魚的清水, 幫助不了別人,也成就不了自己, 到最後不是到國外白華, 要不就是謀反起義  http://blog.wenxuecity.com/myblog/57970/201805/17425.html


Conclusion:

Live with your rivals, as they make you stronger. If someone throw you bullshit? use it as fertilizer to grow, to thrive, to energize yourself.

Romans 8:28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.


** Ref. #1 -- cont'd

推薦《上海啊上海》.

(2) "　光夫這個人，典型的西洋海龜，眼鏡，嚴謹，刻板，純厚，老實，溫柔，政府正規部門，專業的金融知識，獨當一麵的職業技能，後來自己獨立開了上海第一家私人銀行，可是人脈圈子總交織於政府、政治，得支也受困。對朋友諫言獻策，不避諱，不護短，開門見山，同時原則性強，按部就班，不允徇私舞弊，規則維護者，關係的平衡者。"

(3) 對世俗的憤恨

(4) 一生三氣中來回度過。長自己誌氣,抗別人的霸氣,成就老天爺給的運氣。

(5) 自地球有人自來，男人就被責任，堅強，豪爽所覆蓋著。桂芳姐說，大丈夫龍床能睡，狗洞能鑽。這話可能也就戲裏說說，真人真事我倒真沒見過。戲裏的劉恭正是睡龍床鑽狗洞，一生浮浮沉沉，幾經波折。

(6) “卿若踐我三生約，我定酬卿一念癡。”

這是戲裏韓如冰反複對劉恭正言說的一句台詞。男主角寫給女主角的詩句是“死生契闊，與子相悅；執子之手，與子偕老。” 這個句子真的很感人，字字鑿鑿，滿滿的承諾。

可是我更喜歡-【卿若踐我三生約，我定酬卿一念癡，】句賦予詩情畫意，真是情意綿綿。

道是活人難，在亂世中生存更難。事業與家庭，利益與情感，前者是硬的，用來填飽肚子或向外貼金，後者是軟的，用來療傷和滋養心靈。錢和情都很重要，哪個更重要，嗬嗬，每個人也許都要麵對的糾結。