Children\'s 10 commandments for mom & Dad

1. Pay attention to me.

2. Don't substitute toys for LOVE.

3. Be happy.

4. Treat me fairly.

5. Give me responsibilities that fit my age.

6. Let me solve my own problems.

7. Remember you're not me and I 'm not you.

8. Don't compare me.

9. Drop your fantasies.

10. Love me unconditionally.

[mousa]

謝謝光臨! I don't think that you should drop your 'fantasy' for your daughter. Your 'fantasy' is also my dream for my son.

Actually, Fantasy here means an unrealistic hope.
大多數家長希望孩子圓自己未能圓的夢, 這是不健康的. 我們不應該將自己未能圓的夢強加在孩子身上. Indeed, we drop our fantasies...

[acme]

謝謝分享! 一點我以前沒意識到的是 "drop your fantacies". 我時常fantacize我女兒長大後, 能找到一個為她傾倒,愛她的男人,幸福的生活. 我應該drop that fantacy. :-)