兩性之愛 - 婚姻 vs 愛情

有人說 : Life is too short to be mean to others. 人生苦短,沒必要對他人惡劣.

我的一位離婚的朋友說, 有婚姻不等於有愛情， 有愛情不等於有婚姻。

I think , it takes two good persons meet at right time, and right place to have 愛情的婚姻 last long …

我覺得好的婚姻是兩個好人相遇在適當的時間,和適當的地方.

Life is real, realistic and practical,  filled with all details  in every place at every moment. Can we choose? Maybe, but NOT always. So, just let it flow smoothly, naturally. 愛情 is beautiful, but other components in life also make life beautiful as well. Taking care our own happiness instead of depending others to be happy may be easier.

Don ’ t be mean to others, but be NICE to ourselves! 不要對他人惡, 但對自己要好!