以愛情誓言的名義想想現在，也想想過去

讀了五七君的短文，也有許多感想。現在就寫出來，就教於朋友們。

很久了，每當我看到在路上一對老年夫婦顫顫巍巍，互相攙扶著走過，我就感動得要哭。
每當我看到在病床邊一位老人守望著她（他）的丈夫或妻子的時候，我也感動得要哭。
每當我想起我外婆給我中風的外公喂飯的情景，我也感動得要哭。

我覺得這些就是人類最珍貴的愛情；人性最美麗的光輝。

有時候麵對一些吵著要離婚（指沒有第三者）的朋友，我就不禁要想，那初戀時的熱情到那裏去了？那時侯追著，求著，哭著，鬧著要結婚。現在就覺得她（他）老了，病了，難看了，嘮叨了，庸俗了，不再浪漫了，就要離了，圖清靜了。不！我覺得是不能這樣的。對方的所有這些變化其實都和你有關，她（他）的付出才有你的成功，你的現在。她（他）的衰老和疾病是她（他）對自己身體的過度透支引起。她（他）變難看了，是你沒有把他（她）保養好，她（他）的嘮叨，庸俗就是因為她（他）太操勞她的精神生活太枯燥的緣故。如果她（他）也能有足夠的時間聽音樂，讀書，上網，看電影，看畫展，旅遊。她（他）或許也會很高雅，很浪漫。

所以作為夫妻，無論貧窮還是富有，無論疾病還是健康，如果確實是相愛結婚，那以後一定也要互相攙扶，互相守望，互相給對方以精神支持。

不管現在年輕還是年老，我們經常要以愛情誓言的名義想想現在，也想想過去。

附：結婚誓言

I,[Groom's name],take you [brede's name],to be my wife,my partner in life and my one true love.

I will cherish our friendship and love you today,tomorrow,and forever.

I will trust you and honor you.

I will laugh with you and cry with you.

I will love you faithfully.

Through the best and the worst,

Through the difficult and the easy.

What may come I will always be there.

As I have given you my hand to hold.

So I give you my life to keep.

So help me God.

I,[brede's name],take you [Groom's name],to be my husband,my partner in life and my one true love.

I will cherish our friendship and love you today,tomorrow,and forever.

I will trust you and honor you.

I will laugh with you and cry with you.

I will love you faithfully.

Through the best and the worst,

Through the difficult and the easy.

What may come I will always be there.

As I have given you my hand to hold.

So I give you my life to keep.

So help me God.

In unison

Entreat me not to leave you,or to return from following after you,

For where you go I will go,

and where you stay I will stay.

Your people will be my people,

and your God will be my God.

And where you die,I will die and there I will be buried.

May the Lord do with me and more if anything but death parts you from me.


i want to take this man/woman to my lawful wedded husband/wife,
to love him/her and cherish him/her,
for better or worse,for poorer and richer.


神父會說:

XX,你願意娶XX小姐為你的妻子麽？照顧她，愛護她，無論貧窮還是富有,疾病還是健康,相愛相敬,不離不棄,永遠在一起?

新郎會回答:

我願意娶XX我的妻子!照顧她，愛護她，無論貧窮還是富有,疾病還是健康,相愛相敬,不離不棄,直到死亡把我們分離