CNCJCC2008-05-21 08:57:10回複悄悄話
最近老公出差三星期,而看的圖書館書或網站文章裏都是寂寞的女人,可我怎麽覺得自己蠻好的嘛。是因為孩子工作忙碌,還是因為知道這隻是短暫的分離,而不覺得?如果老公棄我而去,打擊是有的,但我(想)相信我的人生應該不會隻有“空空蕩蕩”和灰色。就像心穎一樣,雖然有短暫的不適應,但繼續有朋友,繼續工作,繼續旅遊 and enjoy life. That's what I think us woman should be. Our lives with our husband should be like two circles that overlapped; when one circle drops out, we have to CHOOSE to fill in the overlapped part with what used to be the outside self. Maybe 說的容易,做的難吧。