好山好水好寂寞, 好髒好亂好熱鬧-漏了一點:

隨著中國經濟的發展,中國人生活水平有了很大的提高.中國人出國旅遊也很普及.我的不少中國朋友來過美國和加拿大.他們都有這樣的同感:北美確實環境不錯,但華人太少,不熱鬧. 得出了”北美是好山好水好寂寞, 而中國是好髒好亂好熱鬧”的結論.在最近一次老同學聚會上,中國朋友對我說:

你看我們在中國活得多瀟灑,經常下館子,洗腳,卡拉OK. 我們也跟你們國外一樣,有房有車了.國外多悶,沒有什麽好玩的.你說說,你們美國除了空氣幹淨一點,天藍一點,你們平時還有什麽好玩的東西?

我說:

我可以每天和我三個無憂無慮的孩子共同享受天倫之樂.

我這句話出來,他們都沉默了. 是啊,在國內,孩子們沒有一個快樂的童年. 在一個腐敗,爾虞我詐的社會環境,無力自衛的孩子是第一個受害者.還沒有出生,就已經失去了有兄弟姐妹的權力, 因為有權的人希望從父母身上勒索錢.出生以後,麵臨著巨大的各種學習,補習,興趣班的壓力,因為有錢的人希望從父母身上騙取更多的錢.

人人都抱怨養孩子貴,養孩子累. 孩子壓力大, 又沒有伴, 根本談不上有快樂童年. 有錢的人一心希望把孩子送出國. 大家對中國的未來毫無信心. 但是,大家還是本著今朝有酒今朝醉的態度,抓緊時間享受目前所有的物質,而把中國未來的爛攤子推給後人來收拾.

[俺]

得圖林獎的要旗幟選擇的是不要孩子，那又怎麽解釋？他老婆也是MIT的博士，按理該要10個才對。

[20國集團]

好山好水好寂寞
好髒好亂好熱鬧

山清水秀人不秀
鳥語花香反不香

[身是客]

美國人就不是今朝有酒今朝醉?次級貸款引起的金融危機忘了?讀你就知道美國教師是什麽樣的一幫人.中國有錢人一心把孩子送出國,主要不是對中國沒有信心而是要顯示一種有別於普通人的特殊,就象花高價掛張悟本的號,進李一道士的養生課一樣.

[栗米]

北美是好山好水好寂寞, 而中國是好髒好亂好快活！（不是好熱鬧）~~

[mikecwu]

回複liveinca的評論:In the US people have more choices. I used to work long hours, but since I didn't like it, I changed my career to do something that allows me to go home at regular hours. We chose to live in a medium size city so the commute won't be too long. I only drive 6-7 minutes from home to work.

We chose to have my wife stay home for the kids so we will not get stressed out for childcare. We make do with what we have. Ideally we want a house with 6 bedrooms so each one of our 4 kids can have one bedroom. But I don't make that much money so we got a house with 4 bedrooms and that means 2 kids need to share one bedroom. If my wife goes to work too we might be able to afford our dream house, but then we won't have time for our dream family anymore.

A house is just 4 walls and a roof. A home is where you and your loved ones create lasting memories. Material is nothing. Family is everything.

[5706]

The name of your family is

好！好！好！好！好！

A Happy family.

[康無為]

"爺爺奶奶姥姥姥爺叔叔姑姑舅舅舅媽堂兄弟姐妹表兄弟姐妹" 好像賈府似的不是每家都有這麽興旺的人丁還都在身邊吧除非生活在從小長大的村子裏而且誰也不許搬家。讚同mikecwu

[ilovefriday]

在國內下館子，在美國就不下館子了？美國沒有好館子了？洗腳好玩嗎？想想就惡心！

[看你就惡心]

小樣的，趕快從文學城消失！

[雨林天堂]

這個比較片麵吧。你不過是那你有的比你同學沒有的，所以你自我感覺好。你比他們多的，是你有幾個孩子。
至於天倫之樂，別說國內沒有，國內隻會更多。國內的孩子有爺爺奶奶姥姥姥爺叔叔姑姑舅舅舅媽堂兄弟姐妹表兄弟姐妹，你在美國的孩子有嗎？ 除非你把你全家都辦過來。

[京城曼城一線牽]

寫此文章的人夠思想夠狹隘啊，另外外加洋奴一個。

[花非花霧非霧]

雞同鴨講, 談得都不是一碼子事. 在中國就是下館子洗腳? 在美國就是為美國人口增長做貢獻? 身為中國人為美國人口增長做貢獻, 聽著也怪異.

誰說回國就是奔"有好玩的"回去的? 美國好玩之處就是養一堆孩子?這洗腳下館子的和養孩子玩的境界都夠高的

[雲淡水清]

美國有很多很多好玩的，隻是每個人的喜好不一樣而已。喜歡館子,洗腳,卡拉Ok的，可能覺得國內好玩了。

[liveinca]

I just recently joined a public company and I noticed people there work so hard every day. I'm the only person who leaves office at sharp 5 everyday in my team. I don't know how much time they can give thir kids. They are Americans for sure. haha

[liveinca]

This post sounds bias. Actually people in US don't necessarily have much time to play with their children especially people who has long commute to work. On the contrary, people in China at least the people close to me who have a lot free time to enjoying their family time. They are living in less pressure economic environment.

Maybe you are a richer person and you have more freedome than other people. But I'm not, I have to spend 1.5 hours on the road, then have to cook,, when I finish, it's almost time to go to bed. My child spend 9 hours at school, 4 hours at elementary, another 5 at afternoon school. The only quality time we have together is weekend. But usually we do mass house cleanning during the weekend.
I can't feel the way you felt. You are a lucky person perhaps.

[自然人]

何止天倫之樂！還有很多！我現在一聽到館子,洗腳,卡拉OK就覺得特髒，惡心。