奇文共欣賞,疑義相與析(2)

采桑子 於 06-06-22 16:07:30

所謂寫手, 是指經常在大眾媒體上發表原創文章的人。這裏的大眾媒體指報紙、雜誌、發行的單行本小說和網絡等，隻要是麵向大眾開放的都算。如果你天天記日記，存在筆記本裏或者自己的電腦硬盤裏，因為不向大眾公開，所以大眾也不知道你，那麽你也算不得寫手。比如曹雪芹曹前輩，含辛茹苦十年有餘寫成一部《紅樓夢》，那九年默默耕耘，無人知之，所以他就不能算寫手。等到一舉成名天下聞的時候，可以稱做寫手。可是他老人家貧病交加，已經做古，隻能叫“前寫手”。

定義了寫手，再來談談寫手與讀者的關係。寫手在大眾媒體上寫作，讀者在大眾媒體上閱讀，實際上是一種邀約關係。因為沒有讀者的寫手不能算寫手，寫手寫出來東西就是給人看的。就比如我們周圍的公園，之所以叫公園，就是一個邀約，是讓廣大人民群眾進去休閑，遊玩的。封閉的花園，要插一塊牌子，上寫“私人領地，謝絕入內”。你進去了，就是侵犯私有財產。網絡上有沒有這樣的領地？有。比如班級通訊錄，批發商為零售商開設的B2B網站，這些網站都設有密碼，好比私家花園的鑰匙，主人門一關，不相幹的人自然進不去，就知道自己是不受歡迎的人。

好了，如果你的網站沒有鎖，那麽就是麵向公眾開放的一個公園。你建設了公園，卻發出了邀約，要大家進去賞花遊玩。那麽你和大眾就是一種邀約關係。那麽大眾就有權利對你的作品，無論是寫作態度也好，作品裏的人物也好，都有權利進行評論，當然你也有權利反駁，但是卻沒有權利讓人家閉嘴。

這是一個社會的common sense。

 沒有權利讓人家閉嘴? -chicken- ♂   (98 bytes) (216 reads) 2006-06-22 
perhaps, but the author has right to WANT certian people to cut it out.

•  沒明白你的意思. 能說明白點嗎? -采桑子- ♀   (0 bytes) (22 reads) 2006-06-22

•  I mean -chicken- ♂   (275 bytes) (169 reads) 2006-06-22  That author didn't drive some people away forcefully but she just simply suggested that they leave. So, she has right to want that happen and suggest that, right? And of course on the other hand, certain readers have "right" to feel hurt and express it.

•  我說過了, 既然是個邀約, 那麽他/她這麽做就很粗魯 -采桑子- ♀   (42 bytes) (127 reads) 2006-06-22  是一種冒犯. 這個我後麵還會再講到的.

•  Not everybody wants to please -chicken- ♂   (1204 bytes) (155 reads) 2006-06-22  everybody. most of us would beg for our article being visited , clicked and bumped. She is not like that. She would talk to you first about some disagreements cause she wouldn't just simply ignore your attention to the article and effort of posting. And if that doesn't work out and it turns out that someone is just having a foreign thinking than her, she may recommend that person not to bother to come. If that one really didn't come, it would be just easier for both parties. At least, I guess. She would not get upset or be armed because you don't like her. She also would not accept everything of you just because you like her and make nice compliments. You can kiss her butt for a month but if you appear to be a person who enjoys passing on judgements to people and can't help lecturing on people, she may still not take you like a " ZhiSha". Take it easy, girl, you can very possibly change your mind or have a second thought concerning her personality once you meet her in real life. The web blocks a big part of our communications and makes a lot of misunderstandings. Keep being resentful toward someone won't make you any happier.

•  請不要對號入座, 俺隻是針對一種現象泛泛而言 -采桑子- ♀   (394 bytes) (120 reads) 2006-06-22  就比如你請了客人來家, 談話中間因為客人一句話不入耳, 而人家也沒什麽惡意, 你就說: 我這裏淺窄, 請你到寬闊的人家做客去吧. 試問一下: 客人是什麽感受? 不能說因為主人是個什麽性格, 就可以這麽粗魯地對待客人.因為這不是一個人的事情, 這是關係到另外一個人的感受. 如果不希望自己的博克被訪問,可以設置成"隱藏", 免得人家興致勃勃地闖進去, 大發感慨之餘, 被粗魯地對待. 你說我說的是不是這個理?

•  到公園裏遊玩是沒人會反對的 -寒枝- ♀   (312 bytes) (165 reads) 2006-06-22  隻是如果在公園裏違反了園規, 擾亂了公園的環境, 那園主絕對有理由請那人出園. 而且如果那人反複去騷擾, 園主本來就可以請警察幫忙了. 如果碰上一個溫柔的園主, 每次都是好言相勸, 說你不喜歡我的園子就請下次不要來了, 要是非來不可, 就請不要在我的公園裏再貼反對我的公園的大字報了, 那麽我想那人如果講道理的話就應當適可而止了.

•  厚厚, 對啊. 請問園長會不會因為遊人說一句: 這一處不好看 -采桑子- ♀   (66 bytes) (124 reads) 2006-06-22  就把別人趕走涅? 什麽園長這麽牛? 麻煩MM告訴我, 我去試試看...

•  hahaha -68245- (127 bytes) (101 reads) 2006-06-22  Haven't you already tried and met such an owner. Believe it and accept it as one element of life. Get over it and move on.

•  偶是真想看看現實生活中有沒有這種不講理的園長... -采桑子- ♀   (37 bytes) (70 reads) 2006-06-22  說實話, 在國外, 大多數公園沒有園長...

•  In real life -68245- (270 bytes) (82 reads) 2006-06-22  I encourage you go to private families and try that. I think however you are treated, good or bad, you can not say "Because someone else treated me better or 'reasonable', therefore I should be treated the same here." The rules in public domain does not apply here.

•  在現實生活中, 我知道, 大家都必須對任何人彬彬有禮 -采桑子- ♀   (108 bytes) (76 reads) 2006-06-22  否則很可能得到一張律師函. 到目前為止, 我沒有對任何人說, 你不要來我的博克. 即使有人對我說過類似的話...

•  當地社區中心就是公園的園主. -BubbleToot- ♀   (131 bytes) (66 reads) 2006-06-22  社區中心製定的規矩你喜歡不喜歡都得服從，比如有的公園不允許搞“Petting Zoo”的 Birthday 生日，你如果硬要搞，被人告一狀就可能被處罰。

•  要是您隻是自己嘟囔一句這一處不好看, -寒枝- ♀   (145 bytes) (101 reads) 2006-06-23  也不會有人理啦. 但是如果您把自己背道而馳的意見塗抹在人家心愛的大樹上, 甭管是誰也不會喜歡啦. 而且人家三番四次地好言相勸, 您怎麽還越塗興致越高了呢?