Hi, D.J. Did you try the Mayo Clinic. I heard someone did in vitro fertilization succeeded in Mayo Clinic but failed everywhere else. Chip

Hi D.J, Not sure you can read my message or not....your writing makes me think alot. I am kind of in the same situation as you and really understand what you feel. I came to North America when I was in my 20s then forced on my school, my work....after everythings settle down, getting ready for expending family emotionaly and financially, then it is kind of late already. Sometimes, I think if I knew, I would delay my school instead have kid first. Anyway, good luck on everything. Angela

今年情況如何?按說你的年紀還不算太大。 我見過一北京人，40多歲才結婚，2年也沒懷上，花了很多錢和精力。最後是回京吃中藥，20天，老中醫肯定的說，回去一定懷上。果然應驗。生了個兒子。 除了中藥，針灸也助妊。

thank u for ur advise. my fiance thinks have a sit down diner in a restaurant would save us some money compare to the event halls and stuff. we havent' found the church yet. he wants a church with pipe organ. PS his family are big big drinkers. god knows how much we will spend on wine and other liq.it's too bad i am not finding the joys of the wedding planning at all.

Hi, I have exactly the same problem as yours. My bf is a scientist, and he obviously cares very little about conventional standard of success. I don't even know whether I should marry him. It really upsets me when we argue about whether poor people can be generous. He insists that one still can be generous even if he is poor. On one hand, he loves me so dearly and so purely, and he shows me a wonderful world of love and intelligence; on the other hand, he is too detached from daily life and makes me feel insecure. I am so torn! You will understand my pain......