沒人會承認自己是個愚蠢的人，但我們現在也好，過去也罷，都或多或少曾經幹過很愚蠢的事。
我們在待人接物方麵，在自己做還是不做某件事，相信還是不喜歡某個人，往往很自信，覺得自己跟聰明。除非有件突發事件發生，使我們恍然大悟，我們是不會認識到我們實際上一直很愚蠢的。你會責罵自己怎麽會那麽愚蠢。而實際上，你可能從一開始就很愚蠢。
沒人想當蠢人，那本身就是個愚蠢的事。但我們所有人在判斷上都會有自己的局限性和盲目性。我們想當然地把別人和事按照我們的意願來判斷，認為那件事應該會怎樣發展，那個人應該是什麽樣的人。而現實總是把我們的幻想擊的粉碎！
所以說是我們對於人和事的判斷有問題。
那怎麽辦呢？
實際上也沒什麽辦法。因為我們在待人接物方麵還會犯錯誤。比如說，戀愛中的你會象一個傻瓜。如果你全身心地愛上一個人，那麽現在你應該知道自己有多傻了吧。你知道你為什麽會這樣愛一個人還會受到傷害嗎？ 因為你一直很愚蠢！
有什麽辦法避免愚蠢嗎？
我的建議是拿自己開開心，吸取教訓，繼續前進。
記住了，沒什麽大不了的。沒有比你健康的身心還要重要的事。正因為我們愚蠢過，我們才越來越聰明。
沒錯，我這輩子也幹過不少非常愚蠢的事情。不過回過頭來看看，我要說那些蠢事都是我生命的一部分。過去的事是不可能改變的。實際上，能改變我也不會去改變它。如果你以不同的心態再來看看，那些蠢事實際上還挺逗的。每當我想起這些事的時候，常常會笑出聲來：我怎麽那麽愚蠢啊。
不要讓這些事情來煩惱自己。 不要對自己太苛刻了。沒人能永遠是聰明的。誰要是把你給涮了，早晚他/她也會有被涮的時候。
所以，隨它去吧。明白了嗎？ 哈哈哈哈！
Are you stupid?!
None of us would consider him or herself a stupid person, but we all are , or have been stupid, some times, some where, some how.
We all think we are bright and smart about things we do or don't as well as people we trust or dislike. We won't realize how stupid we have been until somethimg comes up and wakes us up, Oh shit, how stupid I was, you say. Actually, you might just have been stupid since day one.
None of us would like to be stupid simply because it is a very stupid thing to do. But we all have our limit and blindness in our judgement. We'd like to think people and things the way we think they are, but the reality always hits us very hard.
So the problem really lies in our own judgement towards people and things.
What can we do about it?
Not very much actually, because we will make mistake about people and things again and again. For instance, If you are in love, you may act like a fool. If you heartfully have loved someone then you should know by now that how stupid you have been. Do you know why you are the one who got hurt from the relationship? Because you have been stupid.
Is there anything we can do to avoid being stupid?
My suggestion is to laugh at yourself, learn from your mistake, and move on.
Remember, no big deal. Nothing is more important than your healthy body and mind. We become smart and smarter because we have been stupid.
Yes, I have done some stupidest things in my life. However, looking back, I have to say although what I did was very stupid but that's part of my life. Nothing I can change back. As a matter of fact, I won't change back at all , actually it is very funny if you look at it with different mind set. I laugh at myself many times when I think about those stupid things that I have done in the past. Man, I was stupid!
Don't let those things upset you. Don't be too hard on yourself. No one can be smart forever. Whoever might have outsmarted you last time, will have his or her turn of being stupid sooner or later.
So, whatever, you know what I mean? hahahaha.
