選哪所大學？

We have two athletic recruiting offers: one from a highly regarded top 5, at least top 10 liberal arts school with a competitive, nationally ranked team, but the program and team culture are lacking. My child didn't feel included during the official visit, admission isn't guaranteed even with a roster spot because of high standard academic requirements, but the coach will fully support the admission process. The other offer is from a top 15 liberal arts school, where the coach, program, and culture are exceptional. The coach has developed a strong relationship with my child over the past year. My child feels happy there and really connects with the community and team. How should we make our decision?

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• no brainer... -borisg- ♂ (20 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 08:45:11

• 孩子的happiness最重要。 -BeagleDog- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 08:59:40

• School 1 -frontbay2020- ♂ (136 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 09:00:27

• overrated intern opportunities，最後靠的都是自己。。。T15足夠好了。。。 -古代的事物- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 09:49:26

• 哈哈哈，你家孩子不是做了決定了嗎？家長為啥還糾結？ -兩女寶媽- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 08:47:45

• 這個有點難給建議呀， 如果不把運動項目考慮在內的話。孩子和家長覺的能在第二個學校很開心嗎， 孩子有朋友 -小小試一下水- ♀ (172 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 08:59:54

• 是啊！ -frontbay2020- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 09:06:04

• top10 和top15 LAC能差多少 -violinpiano- ♂ (33 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 09:06:52

• 除了T5，其他我都看專業 -兩女寶媽- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 09:17:16

• 如果娃受傷了不能再參加運動隊，哪家好？ -windyLL- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 09:07:25

• school 1 好得多 -frontbay2020- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 09:11:14

• 不能這麽想啊，這都是太小概率的事情了。人生如果這麽想，那豈不是不用活了：如果明天自己死了呢？ -兩女寶媽- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 09:12:08

• 這是大概率事件啊，你要是認識D1運動員就知道了。 -windyLL- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 10:14:30

• Bowdoin vs Weslyan 肯定選Bowdoin。花街通道好。孩子不快樂那就沒法子，去快樂的地方，其他沒那麽重 -oryzivore- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 09:18:56

• BOWDOIN太左，到處是BLM和LGBTQ的牌子。 -borisg- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 09:22:58

• 娃上學娃決定。或者參考其它因素，比如離家遠近，交通天氣這些 -moon*river- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 09:22:18

• As a D1 student-athlete's parent suggest: just follow your -dryedfish- ♂ (25 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 09:31:50

• 沒有差別, 和教練以及隊伍的relationship決定。 -Rockeymountain- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 09:48:40

• D1 還是D3, D1 還不保證進？ -小豬豆豆0307- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2024 postreply 15:37:36

• 別落埋怨，是他在上學 -新年好運- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/01/2024 postreply 04:13:00