這是剛剛的聊天記錄：
娃： I got an appointment (是和psychiatrist的)
媽： Great!! Do you mind I also join and listen?
娃： Can you? xxth, Xpm
媽： I think I can join as long as you forward me the meeting link, time is fine.
娃： Do you have questions?
媽： 不知你的狀況是什麽程度，需不需要休學一年調整一下？或減少一些課程減輕壓力？
娃： I might end up dropping a course and going down to 13 credits this semester
娃： I don't want to go on a leave of absence though
媽： 就是說，你的狀況跟壓力有關嗎？還是別的跟壓力不相關的原因？
娃： I guess it is
媽： Dropping a class is good if you can, just go ahead and request it.
娃： It's slightly related to stress, but i think it's more related to weather
媽： you can drop more if you like, make sure start with the amount that you can handle
娃： If i drop more i won't be considered a full time student
媽： Ok
娃： There's just one class that I haven't been going to in a while and it's making me really anxious
媽： 已經開始一個月了，可以drop吧？ 盡快跟學校聯係
娃： I think so, I don't think the drop deadline is passed
媽： Great!!
娃： It's not really necessary so I wouldn't mind dropping it
媽： Is that for the minor? Do you want to just focus on one major, instead of double+minor?
娃： I'm already halfway through and I have a lot of time
娃： I'm also pretty ahead in terms of coursework, I count as a junior because I've taken so many credits
媽： Ok, just make sure you don't have too much pressure. You decide. Let us know if anything we can help.
娃： Ok
媽： By the way, there's another website for you to look for therapist, psychologytoday.com,上麵不少你那個城市的
娃： Ok
非常感謝大家的討論，還有在悄悄話裏留言的朋友。讓我開闊了思路，鎮定了許多。這條路很長，我願意盡我所能幫助娃度過人生路上的溝溝坎坎，等待她成熟的那一天。
祝大家龍年好運！！！
