No, you can not change the past, not in this universe.
The lady in the video doesn't know what she is talking about. Her comments on the Schrödinger's cat experiment are nonsense too.
Ignore it.
If you like to hear about this experiment, here is a better video: https://youtu.be/wcwDmvkyNLU
But I think this so-called delayed-choice experiment is unnecessary intellectual gossip, better to ignore it altogether, from Wheeler or not.