所謂愛不愛是看願不願意為之做貢獻。
雪蓮 has already made her contributions with her writing which is considered by many of us necessary and important. Is that not good enough for you? What contributions have you made? Perhaps you have made bigger contributions, yet that doesn't mean you can weigh other's that way. There are many factors in deciding where to live in one's life, long or short. Are you not old enough to understand this?
By the way, if I recall correctly, you once said that you love US more than China. Not saying that it isn't possible since there are all kinds of karmas, yet I still wonder, if one has such a big heart as to love a country of her immigration in where she has built a life, how would she not love even more her motherland that created her life to begin with? And that country gave her a childhood, first family life, first friends, a first language, a first education and so on. If 雪蓮 sounds 偽善 , I think you sound more so.
Yes, you appear very foolish because while you judge others you forget to judge yourself.
