"西方人有風度，中國人有人情味''

Said by my best friend who came to the US in his early adolescence.

"Westerners are more honest, Chinese people are more sincere."

Said by myself to a 香蕉人 whose parents came from Taiwan and whose father was a Yale professor, and he agreed. He spoke fluent Mandarin and lived in China for an extended period of time.

I am guessing,  the last generations of Chinese painfully experienced the imperfections of the Chinese society (lacking 風度 , dishonesty) , therefore they are more impressed by the 風度 and honesty seen in western nations. Nothing wrong about this admiration, but one needs to remind oneself that Westerners were not always like this, neither were Chinese people. As well, one should know that this impression is only a surface one, something that a tourist can see. It takes more time to see deeper and the other side of the coin.

As a matter of fact, western politicians and media personalities have shown a great deal of dishonesty and a complete lack of 風度 towards China and Chinese people in the past two years.

 

 

 

 

所有跟帖： 

• 我發覺你的理性出於你的的直覺。如果深入，會更有說服能力。意思是分享觀點還是需要解析，表達，語言的邏輯等發送能力。 -applebee3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/31/2021 postreply 11:05:34

• 我沒有說你理性的完整，有部分欠缺。但直覺有敏銳的特征，我一直覺得與你閱讀的佛經有關。閱讀在於專注度，還有領悟能力。 -applebee3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/31/2021 postreply 11:10:05

• 一直覺得你和辜鴻銘很像，對西方很了解，卻深愛中國文化。 -為人父- ♂ (86 bytes) () 08/31/2021 postreply 11:13:00

• 剛看了辜鴻銘的個人生活與觀點介紹，真是惡心呀。小謝是這樣的人嗎？ -applebee3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/31/2021 postreply 11:23:23

• 我說的是對中西方的態度，不是辜鴻銘的生活。 -為人父- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/31/2021 postreply 11:45:21

• 是個很好的諍友，直言不諱的批評雖然不好聽，但也難得。 -為人父- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/31/2021 postreply 11:56:34

• 我有代表列祖列宗向姚順至歉的衝動 -中間小謝- ♂ (179 bytes) () 08/31/2021 postreply 11:47:32

• ：）） -bymyheart- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/31/2021 postreply 11:57:20

• 哈哈 -青雨紫煙- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/31/2021 postreply 12:06:27

• 怎麽會有人忍心打靜安 來抱一個：） -青雨紫煙- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/31/2021 postreply 12:35:52