Some author (張方宇, a very gifted author of new proverbs) says: Poetry arises where the ego is absent.
Well said. Poetry is supposed to be impersonal.
When I wrote about 小雲朵, I wasn't really writing about her but the beauty I perceived in her photos.
She didn't take it personally either. She didn't even fellow with a comment. I thought that was a bit indifferent but nothing wrong. It's probably better that way.