可能我不懂這種思維方式？

把他說的一錢不值，甚至奚落，是為他好？他們對自己小孩也是這樣的？Once the Chinese church that I went to did a survey with teenagers, the parents looked pretty bad, they were hard to please, even one B was considered unacceptable, they were very demanding, unsympathetic to their children's struggle, they were mean, verbally abusive. I guess to these parents, 'success' is more important than happiness, and the only success is defined by hard work and results in their way.
You wonder why other people are having an easier life?

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• 推爹推媽，都是推，推的方式不一樣。 關於教育孩子，hard work 還真是狠重要， -Livelycolor- ♀ (87 bytes) () 02/17/2015 postreply 09:26:01

• 不是說hard work 不重要。個人觀點，華裔教育子女的方式可以改進， -雪花無聲- ♀ (39 bytes) () 02/17/2015 postreply 09:29:50