How far can a marriage go with one person's effort? I want to kn

"當婚姻裏的兩個人，彼此疲憊，不屑於交流，我不知道，單憑一個人的力氣，婚姻可以堅持多久。我是真的很努力過。我把世界跟自己隔開，讓自己完全地傾注於家庭，可是，我得到了什麽。"

I have the exact same problem. It felt like I was in a deep dark tunnel and couldn't see any light ahead. I tried so hard to guard my own heart. I didn't want to betray my marriage and wanted to give my child a complete family. But he walked into my life with a bright smile and a sweet, sweet heart. I lost all my ability to resist temptation. I knew it's not a right thing to do. I knew there is no room for this sort of mistake. But I just could not stop myself wanting to be close to him, not just physically. We talked a lot online and we also saw each other a few times. So far, I have not committed the ultimate betrayal. But i know if I keep seeing him, sooner or later this is going to happen. I'm so torn between my family and him.

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• 理解你，但是，不知道該怎麽安慰你。多看看書吧，或者做點別的事，轉移一下注意力，從那種情緒中拔出來。 -塵凡無憂- ♀ (353 bytes) () 08/05/2011 postreply 20:09:48

• Thank you -dog_lover- ♀ (1367 bytes) () 08/06/2011 postreply 22:09:35

• 謝謝你這麽坦誠地講自己的故事。我完全能理解你。不過，實話說， -塵凡愛無憂- ♀ (434 bytes) () 08/09/2011 postreply 20:10:03