ask old cat, Artificial insemination

Hi old cat, thank you in advance for your help.

Here is the situation. I am going to move to MD for a new job. My hu*****and will stay in the west coast. Now I am 38 years old, and want a child desperately, but my hu*****and doesn't want a child. We had numberous fights for this, but I could not convince him. Now I am thinking since I am moving out, and could I do the artifical insemination without my hu*****and's permission in MD? I don't think we have repoductive challagens, but he just doesn't want. I know, if we get divorced, then I can do whatever I want. However, we don't have other major problems in our marriage. Is it worth to get divorce for a child?

any inputs are highly appreciated! thanks!

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no. without his permission, there will be a lot of problems. -uuma- 給 uuma 發送悄悄話 uuma 的博客首頁 (131 bytes) () 02/12/2009 postreply 19:35:02

thanks, but I have a ability to raise the child, I don't -liliaz- 給 liliaz 發送悄悄話 (325 bytes) () 02/12/2009 postreply 19:39:54

as a family, it is difficult to differentiate what is your -uuma- 給 uuma 發送悄悄話 uuma 的博客首頁 (91 bytes) () 02/12/2009 postreply 19:53:20

I really understand your concern, but I am already 38, -liliaz- 給 liliaz 發送悄悄話 (166 bytes) () 02/12/2009 postreply 19:56:33

pursude him to have a kid or otherwise devorce. -uuma- 給 uuma 發送悄悄話 uuma 的博客首頁 (288 bytes) () 02/12/2009 postreply 20:11:25

thank you very much for your understanding. I just -liliaz- 給 liliaz 發送悄悄話 (378 bytes) () 02/12/2009 postreply 20:18:19

I haven't seen any man who refuses to satisfy -uuma- 給 uuma 發送悄悄話 uuma 的博客首頁 (536 bytes) () 02/12/2009 postreply 20:46:54

thank you! see below -liliaz- 給 liliaz 發送悄悄話 (725 bytes) () 02/12/2009 postreply 21:12:47

additional information: -liliaz- 給 liliaz 發送悄悄話 (268 bytes) () 02/12/2009 postreply 21:18:07

Pin head solution--easy and proven sucesseful -iammadaboutu- 給 iammadaboutu 發送悄悄話 iammadaboutu 的博客首頁 (145 bytes) () 02/13/2009 postreply 07:48:22

This is a good solution -- 回複:Pin head solution--easy and proven -N.- 給 N. 發送悄悄話 N. 的博客首頁 (148 bytes) () 02/13/2009 postreply 09:22:50

一個問題,您要用誰的精子? -單身老貓- 給 單身老貓 發送悄悄話 單身老貓 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2009 postreply 09:30:46

問您這個問題是有道理的,如果您不好回答,老貓就不多管這事了. -單身老貓- 給 單身老貓 發送悄悄話 單身老貓 的博客首頁 (16 bytes) () 02/13/2009 postreply 14:25:14

肯定是精子庫裏無名氏的嘛。 -uuma- 給 uuma 發送悄悄話 uuma 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2009 postreply 14:31:21

回複:肯定是精子庫裏無名氏的嘛。 -單身老貓- 給 單身老貓 發送悄悄話 單身老貓 的博客首頁 (941 bytes) () 02/13/2009 postreply 15:37:57

我也同樣的困惑了一下 -caliber- 給 caliber 發送悄悄話 caliber 的博客首頁 (38 bytes) () 02/13/2009 postreply 16:12:43

回複:you have the following choices -集茜- 給 集茜 發送悄悄話 (1650 bytes) () 02/13/2009 postreply 16:53:11

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