Articifical insemination without your hu*****and's permission is a bad, bad idea. It's not a rational choice and you'll get into more trouble (legal and emotional) than you can imagine. Also, do you want your child to grow up without a father and to know his/her existence is not out of love but out of a tube?
Trick him into preganancy is also a bad idea. Having a child is a mutual decision between two people. It's unfair to him to have his child without his permission. On top of that, when your child grows up and finds out that he/she is a trick baby and his/her Dad never wanted him/her in the first place, how would you explain it?
Throw the above 2 out,you still have the following choices:
1. Use all the power you have to convince him to have a child with you.
2. Give up the idea of having a child.
3. Get a divorce from him.
Don't give up the idea yet of convincing him to change his mind. While time is not on you side, you still have some and should keep trying.
If you can't convince him, then do a balancing test, i.e., balancing how much you want to be with him against how much you want to have a child. If the former outweighs the latter, then do 2 (giving up the idea of having a child). If the latter outweighs the former, then do 3 (get a divorce).
If in the end you decide to divorce, don't feel bad about it. His stubbornness is extreme. If, however, you decide to stay with him, I assure you that you can have a full life without children.
Make a decision and move on with your life. Wish you all the best!
Trick him into preganancy is also a bad idea. Having a child is a mutual decision between two people. It's unfair to him to have his child without his permission. On top of that, when your child grows up and finds out that he/she is a trick baby and his/her Dad never wanted him/her in the first place, how would you explain it?
Throw the above 2 out,you still have the following choices:
1. Use all the power you have to convince him to have a child with you.
2. Give up the idea of having a child.
3. Get a divorce from him.
Don't give up the idea yet of convincing him to change his mind. While time is not on you side, you still have some and should keep trying.
If you can't convince him, then do a balancing test, i.e., balancing how much you want to be with him against how much you want to have a child. If the former outweighs the latter, then do 2 (giving up the idea of having a child). If the latter outweighs the former, then do 3 (get a divorce).
If in the end you decide to divorce, don't feel bad about it. His stubbornness is extreme. If, however, you decide to stay with him, I assure you that you can have a full life without children.
Make a decision and move on with your life. Wish you all the best!
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