請問夫妻吵架造成Misdemeaner Child Abuse case in NC 需要請律師嗎?

事情的過程是這樣的,因為懷孕是否請我父母來還有被layoff等問題和老公冷戰了一周多,周六早上8點他要去公司加班,我坐進他的車子要求他在家裏加班(他可以在家裏加班的)並且把其他問題說清楚,3歲多的兒子當時還在家裏睡覺,結果我老公讓我下車,我不肯下,他就一直把車開到公司,在路上和到公司門口我一直說不能把小孩一個人留在家裏,要他開回去或者給我車鑰匙讓我回家,他不讓說那你為什麽要上車,我急了身上什麽也沒有帶就跟他搶鑰匙,他硬是不給,我們就在他公司裏打了起來,然後8:30左右我報警叫來了警察,說我老公不給我鑰匙小孩還在家裏,我請求他們趕緊送我回家,可是警察們說要先fiugre out what happened, 這樣一直折騰到9:40我們才一起回到了家,這時小孩已經醒了,自己跑出來到車庫外的drive way上正在找我們.警察於是就說我們兩個把小孩留在家裏將近兩小時沒人管,就控告了我們兩個人都是misdemeaner child abuse. 10月9號上庭.

在這裏想問問懂法律的朋友們,象我門這種情況在北卡可能的處罰是什麽呢?有沒有必要請律師辯護或者自己上庭也不會有大的區別?我是準備自己上庭跟法官說清楚,可是已經收到一堆律師的廣告了.

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• 回複：請問夫妻吵架造成Misdemeaner Child Abuse case in NC 需要請律師嗎? -casinoeye- ♂ (617 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 12:03:56

• Excellent point. Get a lawyer. While a lot of people are -昭君出塞因地製宜- ♂ (544 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 09:50:43

• 太任性了，居然打到公司去了，演砸了八， 同情中... -隨機上浮- ♀ (702 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 12:38:42

• Thanks our status is green card now, what are the possible penal -dreammy- ♀ (451 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 14:38:23

• 回複：Thanks our status is green card now, what are the possible pe -casinoeye- ♂ (213 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 14:47:22

• you don't need to be so mean -dreammy- ♀ (166 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 14:58:20

• though he or she is a jackass, u do need to -gracelaqiu- ♀ (279 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 15:04:46

• my husband was accused too. -dreammy- ♀ (168 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 15:14:35

• 你的意思是一個巴掌拍不響 不過一個人反省自己的時候最好不要 -菲菲兒- ♀ (115 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 20:57:36

• 您查的是那門的資料?? 很好奇. -單身老貓- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 16:02:11

• 請問單身老貓在嗎,想問問你的意見 -dreammy- ♀ (46 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 15:02:09

• Just one question for you and your husband: -smart- ♂ (209 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 15:21:42

• I regret most afterward was my child left at home alone, not my -dreammy- ♀ (409 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 15:41:56

• till now you still blame your husband not yourself. A big lesson -sleet- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 16:09:44

• I told u misdemeaner is not a big deal. -gracelaqiu- ♀ (353 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 17:51:03

• You truly have no shame. -昭君出塞因地製宜- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 09:59:06

• 你說你I don't think I need to be shamed of anything, I was just out -URBB- ♀ (253 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 18:37:34

• SHAME on you two. especially you! -sleet- ♀ (208 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 16:04:55

• 回複：請問夫妻吵架造成Misdemeaner Child Abuse case in NC 需要請律師嗎? -單身老貓- ♂ (1558 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 15:59:32

• Thank you big cat -casinoeye- ♂ (176 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 17:37:55

• I'm really ashame of China and the US -ntking- ♂ (684 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 16:23:18

• 你們想罵就盡管罵吧,我沒有說我沒錯, -dreammy- ♀ (158 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 16:40:33

• Understood... -internuts- ♂ (507 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 16:57:43

• Thanks for your advice! -dreammy- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 18:24:37

• Where are you produced? -粵太- ♀ (249 bytes) () 10/01/2008 postreply 06:41:40

• 你在懷孕其間最好不要有情緒撥動啊,你先生應該多體諒你 -mickie媽- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 17:41:35

• 真糊塗，堵氣也不能把小孩一個人放在家裏，小孩亂跑多危險！ -watercress- ♀ (124 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 19:01:36

• I don't think this woman -ntking- ♂ (682 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 20:03:51

• 回複：請問夫妻吵架造成Misdemeaner Child Abuse case in NC 需要請律師嗎? -中小學生- ♂ (133 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 19:43:01

• Yep! That poor man should just get rid of her -ntking- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 19:59:40

• It was the Man who drove the car away from the house -zxt9620- ♀ (231 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 22:50:55

• Agree! Many people here have gone too far from "law" -粵太- ♀ (495 bytes) () 10/01/2008 postreply 06:51:34

• 回複：請問夫妻吵架造成Misdemeaner Child Abuse case in NC 需要請律師嗎? -雲開日出時- ♂ (22 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 04:15:42

• 你老公怎找了你這個潑婦 -雲開日出時- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 05:28:25

• 是啊，嚴重同情LZ的老公。 -wxc12345- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 16:12:11

• Come on, guys! -smart- ♂ (299 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 07:11:42

• Agreed! ---Z--- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 07:29:26

• agreed, do not be too mean on her. -在水四方- ♀ (184 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 19:17:16

• 太過了，如果孩子丟了，後果不堪設想。 -九月小狗熊的媽媽- ♀ (44 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 07:25:10

• 夫妻倆都要快點長大. 請律師,別再自找麻煩了. Good luck! -citygirl08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 07:26:57

• 從我同事的事情給你們的忠告：你老公公司有任何風吹草動，你老公就地一個被裁員！ -sleet- ♀ (274 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 07:50:17

• sorry.沒細看，你們有綠卡了，狀況好點！ -sleet- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 07:56:40

• 他倆最好別離婚，再結婚會害了別人。 -昭君出塞因地製宜- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 09:53:46

• 我很久以前就這麽說， 在這裏被人家說我變態。 -casinoeye- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 13:41:37

• Your hushand is such an irresponsible person, and -lazy-cat- ♀ (138 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 09:16:24

• 我覺得你們也別光在這兒罵的痛快 -花自飄零- ♀ (613 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 13:40:40

• This is a correct attitude... Ding!! -天地隻間- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 15:51:17

• 回複：請問夫妻吵架造成Misdemeaner Child Abuse case in NC 需要請律師嗎? -nbca- ♂ (19 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 15:55:54