Understand you. However, -- 回複：這筆錢我該付嗎？

來源: 3歲男孩媽 於 2008-07-24 00:09:33 [] [博客] [舊帖] [給我悄悄話] 閱讀數 : (1410 bytes)

I understand how you feel. You are frustrated that your baby has to go through surgery. You are probably angry or even self blaming for your baby's condition. It is not your fault; nor other people's. This kind of things happen. On average, a baby born with 6 genetic defects. The most important, your baby is an overall healthy baby.

You are a new mom. Your happiness greatly affects your baby's growth. So, try not to think unhappy stuff. Let your hu*****and deal with the bill. Like the other person said, hospital bill is not urgent. I suggest you not even open those bills.

Honestly speaking, I think you probably have certain degree of "postpartum depression", which is normal to lots of new mothers. (I went through it myself -- I cried A LOT then.) You should talk to your OB about it. 6-fingers is not a big deal. It is OK to talk to your close friends about it. You will feel much better when you get your worries out.

About ultrasound, I got more than 7 times. When doctors are not sure about things, it is normal for them to order more tests. Ultrasound is not accurate. What I don't understand is "全身B超". Should it just be abdominal? If the doctor truly scan you from head to feet, you may have a case complaining about it. Again, leave it to your hu*****and. Your priority is your baby. You could care less about your doctor.

Best wishes to you and your baby.

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