just enjoy it. my parents fussed all the time when we were young, but they r very indepent, they donot support their kids, but they never asked me for money either.
i am of strong characteristic too. i turned down my first lover's proposal after he becomes filthy rich, and i build up my business in USA, however, i who used to be perfectly healthy have imcurable cancer now, and have to put up with my jerk hu*****and like a loser.
Life is unfair but u have to suffer.
just do what u r gonna to do.