問離婚- 很失落，請求幫助

在中國結婚，現在美國工作。老公和我都是H-1B。老公剛開始辦綠卡。有1 兩歲小孩。

老公長期隱埋與一“表姐”關係。

包括借1萬美金救濟她炒股(1萬美金從我們共同帳戶劃出未同我說達9個月之長，直
到戲劇性銀行打電話來，因為還款電匯錯誤，他不得不坦白。

表姐在加拿大，有老公有小孩。表姐這次回成都，老公還在加。我們正好也回家探
親。老公把小孩送我家代，他不同住。兩個星期中從未來我家好好看看我父母說說
話。他卻有空飛去成都探表姐兩天。

回來時發覺他包裏有避孕套。問他，他解釋說中國買的便宜。我說那為啥是開封的，還用了兩個。他說以後同你解釋，後又說因我不太和他房事，他自己用。我心存疑惑。

回美國後無意中看見他和表姐 email ，語言曖昧。老公還討照片，照片很正常，我看了也沒說。兩天後因說到國內同學聚會照片，我問他 email 是否還有別的照片，他說沒。我說你的表姐呢。他說沒照片。一再強調，說怎麽會有照片。還扯開去說表姐小孩照片以前不是給你看過。

我說你說謊，我看過你email ，明明有照片，正大光明的，為何見不得人？他立即發怒，說我偷看。

我記得清清楚楚他的麵部表情，因為我早知有照片，我想看看他說謊的樣子，他很自然，很委屈，很無辜 until I pointed out that I have evidence. His face sudently changed.

I am so shocked. I am not mad at the issue itself but his attitude. I cannot trust him any more if he can lie like this.

I'd like to file for divorce. He want the baby and I want the baby, too. He makes more money than I do but he do not know how to cook and stuff...

We purchased two houses in U.S.while we are still married. He didn't put my name on the title. I contributed to the mortage every month. We are in Minnesota.

Can we divorce here if we got married in China? How? I'd like to protect my rights. Please help. Thanks.

Kenny Mom

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• 回複： -Knini- ♀ (40 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 11:29:17

• one more question -knini- ♀ (529 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 11:57:08

• I agree with you -knini- ♀ (162 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:33:07

• 隻有一個問題,你是單身嗎? -風見鶏- ♂ (15 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 12:44:57

• 你是居民委員會的，我是風見鶏 -風見鶏- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 12:54:01

• Thanks for listening and all your advices -knini- ♀ (612 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:44:29

• 樓主的條件不大符合I-360的條件. 她HB才剛 -stp- ♂ (78 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 20:54:28

• 一般沒個縣，都有為弱者，婦女離婚，受紐帶的那種服務熱線 -月半豆豆- ♀ (117 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:35:56

• He never hit me, he's just a lier. Domestic Violence still apply -knini- ♀ (30 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:53:08

• 我覺得，你有些怕你老公。有沒有，有些 -月半豆豆- ♀ (14 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 14:03:58

• you are all nice person. God bless you. -knini- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:51:11

• Consult a lawyer -zxcvbnm007- ♂ (726 bytes) () 02/03/2006 postreply 19:47:59

• 你快沒丈夫啦,加把勁. -風見鶏- ♂ (16 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 12:22:20

• 回複：你快沒丈夫啦,加把勁. -Knini- ♀ (130 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:25:27

• 他弱智你不用搭理 -2479- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:27:12

• 回複：回複：你快沒丈夫啦,加把勁. -風見鶏- ♂ (394 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:40:07

• 回複：回複：回複：你快沒丈夫啦,加把勁. -knini- ♀ (116 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 13:50:14

• What he said is from the famous story about... -Bodd- ♀ (152 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 15:52:54

• 一派胡言亂語, 什麽男人都會犯的錯!? 女人也一樣呀, -黑白分明- ♀ (225 bytes) () 01/26/2006 postreply 17:59:25

• 我的建議... -redpepper- ♀ (619 bytes) () 01/24/2006 postreply 20:27:51

• 大部分州對離婚都有分居時限，你們分居多長時間 -小胖媽- ♀ (354 bytes) () 01/25/2006 postreply 09:52:00

• 回複：問離婚- 很失落，請求幫助 -annaqiqi- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2006 postreply 23:21:47