I never say she is a loyel wif

It's you who said he was a good man. and I don't agree. That's the point!
Many chinese men have had affair, they didn't want to hurt their marriage too even in that situation. Of course, it's not good. But most wiives gave their hu*****ands another chance. But if chinese wife has affair, things are different.
I don't mean he should keep his marriage, this should be decided by both of them.