總結一下：時間太倉促，他可能隻有放棄房子，婚後他可以和妻子一起住，但老父親怕需要時間申請福利房了

等補償金到手，他們再現金買一個房子。老米如果以前一直有工作，一般沒危機意識，錢到就花光，一失業，就徹底陷入財務危機，他未婚妻也是收入月光一類，也沒有現金在手可以幫他。而且老米們不象老中變通，喜歡死嗑，我的第一反應也是為啥不出租房子之類的？但咱不是他，也不知道他怎麽想的。

不過，你自己不為自己的未來做計劃，也隻好自己為錯誤買單了。

等他賠償金到手，他應該又能重新啟航。

搜索到的關於eviction的執行程序：

Ejectment Procedures For New Jersey Foreclosure; Judgment Entered and Writ of Possession Issued:
At the conclusion of the Sheriff's Sale, judgment may be entered for possession. Simultaneously, a Writ of Possession is issued and the Sheriff has thirty days to serve the Writ of Possession on defendant.

Ejectment Date: 
After the Sheriff serves the Writ of Possession, the occupants are given twenty days to move. On the twenty-first day after service of the Writ of Possession, if the occupants have not vacated the premises, the attorney telephones the Sheriff's Office to schedule the eviction. The Sheriff will then assign a date for the eviction, which is usually 30 to 90 days from the date the judgment is entered. The client must provide for a moving company and locksmith at the time set by the Sheriff for the lockout.

Landlord/Tenant Act:
If the property is occupied by a tenant, a separate complaint must be filed in Landlord/Tenant Court. This process may take 60-180 days.

http://www.foreclosureuniversity.com/studycenter/foreclosure…

If you have not been served with anything by the Sheriff, it would appear that you should be able to complete your own withdrawal plans.

Only former tenants get the protection of landlord-tenant court. The time of the process for former owners is still fairly long and each step is documented by notification of the Sheriff's office to the former owners.