關鍵是“孩子的最好權益”best interests of the child.

無法預測勝算，看各人的情況，關鍵是小孩多大。外婆歲數大是個致命缺點。小孩自己的願望也很重要。

孩子的權益因素英國法律規定如下
http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1989/41/section/1

UK Children Act of 1989 defines:
1 Welfare of the child.

(3)In the circumstances mentioned in subsection (4), a court shall have regard in particular to—

(a)the ascertainable wishes and feelings of the child concerned (considered in the light of his age and understanding);

(b)his physical, emotional and educational needs;

(c)the likely effect on him of any change in his circumstances;

(d)his age, sex, background and any characteristics of his which the court considers relevant;

(e)any harm which he has suffered or is at risk of suffering;

(f)how capable each of his parents, and any other person in relation to whom the court considers the question to be relevant, is of meeting his needs;

(g)the range of powers available to the court under this Act in the proceedings in question.

所有跟帖： 

• 謝謝! 小孩7歲，外婆60多，姑姑40；外婆方請的律師麵試小孩時，他表示想跟外婆 -NanjingReninUK- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/29/2015 postreply 13:28:57

• 廢話，七歲小孩知道什麽？誰問他就說跟誰，這個證據也拿得出手。 -檸檬椰子汁- ♂ (60 bytes) () 03/29/2015 postreply 13:30:42

• 檸檬厲害，一眼就看出我是管閑事的；這不因為案件發生在我居住的城市嘛，老太太來了以後，正好是我一熟人接待，私下 -NanjingReninUK- ♀ (93 bytes) () 03/29/2015 postreply 13:47:17

• 外婆比姑姑更親吧？ -goingplace- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/29/2015 postreply 14:27:36

• 孩子跟祖父母長大不好，又沒個舅舅阿姨的表兄弟姐妹的。 -如塵- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/29/2015 postreply 14:42:48

• 我覺得還是跟外婆好。姑姑未必親，跟姑姑的倆孩子一起可能寄人籬下的感覺 -Manymore- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/29/2015 postreply 20:03:50

• +1 -N.- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/29/2015 postreply 21:03:26

• 在這個國家，這孩子永遠是罪犯的兒子，他爸爸在監獄裏，對他成長一點好處也沒有。 -goingplace- ♀ (69 bytes) () 03/30/2015 postreply 04:44:33

• 你意思跟父親斷絕關係？我當年是選擇了回上海當反革命家屬 -如塵- ♀ (104 bytes) () 03/30/2015 postreply 08:47:32

• 他的情況跟你差太遠了，一是父親在監獄裏，關鍵是他殺了他的媽媽。反革命有什麽？文革時受迫害的多了， -goingplace- ♀ (90 bytes) () 03/30/2015 postreply 10:35:42

• 我爸是給關起來的。我那時還真不知道他有錯沒錯，罪名“反對毛主席的革命路線”呢。 -如塵- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/30/2015 postreply 10:40:32

• My point：跟老人長住很沒勁。我還是寧可被歧視。 -如塵- ♀ (6 bytes) () 03/30/2015 postreply 10:44:29

• 哈哈哈，一天4，5個雞蛋，你沒消化不良？ -arcsigh- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/30/2015 postreply 14:35:52

• 沒有。從蘆柴棒長成小胖子。回上海又瘦回去了。 -如塵- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/30/2015 postreply 14:46:34