結婚紀念日的感悟

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已經不再期待生日的到來,因為我知道生命隻會越來越短暫。但是每一個結婚紀念日,我的內心總是充滿了喜悅和感恩。今生今世,我被上帝深深的祝福了,我是一位蒙福之人。我知道我生命中陪伴我最長的你,我們一定會相伴到永遠。22年的人生歲月,我體會到了什麽是相濡以沫的感情,我感受到了什麽是相依為命的日子。

我們像大多數普通的夫妻一樣,經曆過無數次的爭吵,甚至感覺過婚姻的痛苦。可以每一次在人生最艱難的時刻,我們總是攜手前行,彼此鼓勵和安慰。我們彼此深信,不管我們的生活會發生什麽樣的事情,你我都會相互守護,不會分離。這也是我們在上帝麵前的許諾。

雖然我們是那麽的不同,來自不同的文化,有著不同的生活方式。在不斷的爭執和磨合之中,我們知道彼此都很難改變對方,我們學習接納和包容彼此。因為我們知道彼此在一起的時候,我們不會是孤單一人,這比什麽都更為重要。

雖然我們已經沒有了年輕時候的激情和浪漫,但是每一天下班回到家裏,我們彼此看到對方的時候,心裏就有一份溫暖和踏實的感覺,就好像彼此能夠感覺到對方的呼吸。我想,這是一種“心有靈犀”的最好的詮釋。

我們相互陪伴又相互依賴的22年的人生歲月,經曆了很多暗淡的時光,也看到了人世間的天災人禍和生離死別的滄桑巨變。這讓我們更加感受到我們能夠生活在一起,是多麽的幸運。你是一個不善言談,甚至不會表達的人,你總是默默的孤身一人,但是你對上帝深信不疑,虔誠祈禱。我能夠感受到你內心的強大,我始終相信你是我生命中最好的選擇。

雖然我們的青春年華已經遠走,但是你的善良和單純始終如一,讓我對你從來沒有任何防衛之心,隻有依賴之感。我要感謝你對我一直以來的遷就和忍讓;我要感謝你長年累月的努力工作。雖然你沒有成名成家,但是你一直在為社會奉獻你的最大價值。在一份極具權威的研究網站,全世界你在化學領域的排名是2%。這一份榮譽,足以值得我驕傲。

你總是在盡最大的努力為這個家庭付出。雖然你不能給我提供富裕的生活,但是你一定會給予我你的所有,因為曾經的你為了我不顧死亡的危險,拚命挽救我的生命。從你身上,我看到了許多人性的光輝,你讓我在努力成為一位好人。

如果生命還有來世,我一定會堅定不移的再一次選擇你,選擇你做我的人生伴侶。人生有很多的苦難,可是如果能夠擁有一份執子之手,與子偕老的感情,就是一種最大的祝福。

Weeding aniversary message: I am not looking forward to my birthday's arrival, because I know that life is only getting shorter. But every wedding anniversary, my heart is always filled with joy and gratitude. In this lifetime, I have been deeply blessed by God, and I am a blessed person. I know that you, who have been with me for the longest time in my life, will always be with me forever. In our 22 years of life, I have experienced what it means to have a mutual love, and I have felt what it means to depend on each other.

Like most ordinary couples, we have gone through countless arguments and even felt the pain of marriage. But every time, in the most difficult moments of life, we always move forward hand in hand, encouraging and comforting each other. We deeply believe in each other and know that no matter what happens in our lives, we will protect and never separate from each other. This is also our promise before God.

Although we are so different, coming from different cultures and having different lifestyles, in the constant disputes and adjustments, we know that it is difficult for each other to change. We learn to accept and tolerate each other because we know that when we are together, we will not be alone, which is more important than anything else.

Although we no longer have the passion and romance of our youth, every day when we return home from work, when we see each other, we feel a warmth and sense of security, as if we can feel each other's breath. I think this is the best interpretation of "hearts connected as one."

In our 22 years of life, we have accompanied and depended on each other. We have experienced many bleak times and witnessed the ups and downs of the world, including natural disasters, man-made disasters, and the separation of life and death. This makes us feel even more fortunate to be able to live together. You are not good at speaking, and you may not express yourself, but you always believe in God and pray devoutly. I can feel your inner strength, and I always believe that you are the best choice in my life.

Though our youth is gone,your kindness and simplicity are always the same, and I have no defense against you, only a sense of dependence. I want to thank you for your accommodation and tolerance towards me all these years, and I want to thank you for your years of hard work. Although you have not achieved fame and fortune, you have been contributing your greatest value to society. In a highly authoritative research website, your ranking in the field of chemistry is in the top 2% in the world. This honor is enough to make me proud.

You always make the greatest effort to contribute to our family. Although you cannot provide me with a wealthy life, you will definitely give me everything you have, because you once risked your life to save me. From you, I see the radiance of humanity, and you make me strive to be a good person.

If there is another life, I will definitely choose you again without hesitation, and choose you to be my life partner. Life has many difficulties, but if we can have a love that holds each other's hand and grows old together, it is the greatest blessing.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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恭喜22年結婚紀念日! -Shanghaigirl98- 給 Shanghaigirl98 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 05/05/2023 postreply 22:33:38

謝謝!周末愉快。 -janeb1126- 給 janeb1126 發送悄悄話 janeb1126 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 04:43:55

恭喜。我和愛人也彼此是最好的朋友,雖然文化成長背景不同,心靈相通。這是人生之大幸,珍惜。 -Lydia0108- 給 Lydia0108 發送悄悄話 Lydia0108 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 05:12:00

謝謝留言!握手同為幸運之人,周末快樂。 -janeb1126- 給 janeb1126 發送悄悄話 janeb1126 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 05:25:48

恭喜,祝你倆未來的生活都一直美滿幸福 -LLHappily- 給 LLHappily 發送悄悄話 (48 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 05:40:12

謝謝!祝福你同樣找到了一位善良之人,周末愉快。 -janeb1126- 給 janeb1126 發送悄悄話 janeb1126 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 05:50:35

恭喜你們 -sun45- 給 sun45 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 08:29:35

謝謝太陽!周末開心! -janeb1126- 給 janeb1126 發送悄悄話 janeb1126 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 09:13:38

禁得住考驗的人生 -julie116- 給 julie116 發送悄悄話 julie116 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 08:36:50

謝謝!周末愉快。 -janeb1126- 給 janeb1126 發送悄悄話 janeb1126 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 09:15:41

你找對了人!有學問有擔當,善良溫和。祝福你們一直幸福下去 -purple123- 給 purple123 發送悄悄話 purple123 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 08:38:41

謝謝紫葉!是的,找對人是人生中的一件大事,同樣祝福你。 -janeb1126- 給 janeb1126 發送悄悄話 janeb1126 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 09:17:47

恭喜! 兩個人能彼此合拍互相信任是很難得的,好好珍惜! -6thsense- 給 6thsense 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 09:54:51

謝謝留言!經曆過生死的感情確實難得,祝周末愉快。 -janeb1126- 給 janeb1126 發送悄悄話 janeb1126 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 09:59:01

寫得很好, 很感人。 恭喜你的22年結婚周年紀念 -gzlady- 給 gzlady 發送悄悄話 gzlady 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 10:58:18

謝謝廣姐鼓勵!人生走到最後還能擁有一份美好感情,是一種最好的祝福,同樣祝福你。 -janeb1126- 給 janeb1126 發送悄悄話 janeb1126 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 11:04:34

但是你的善良和單純始終如一 — 非常難得的兩種品質。祝福。 -cxyz- 給 cxyz 發送悄悄話 cxyz 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 14:02:45

謝謝才女閱讀,很高興看到你的留言,同樣祝福你。 -janeb1126- 給 janeb1126 發送悄悄話 janeb1126 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 14:22:02

好的婚姻就是永遠充滿激情。 -Ping_萍萍2018- 給 Ping_萍萍2018 發送悄悄話 Ping_萍萍2018 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/06/2023 postreply 21:29:36

謝謝萍萍的金句!你是婚姻事業和理財三項全能,敬佩。 -janeb1126- 給 janeb1126 發送悄悄話 janeb1126 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/07/2023 postreply 07:23:26

寫的真好,給個大大的恭喜 -螺絲螺帽- 給 螺絲螺帽 發送悄悄話 螺絲螺帽 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/19/2023 postreply 16:47:14

謝謝閱讀和晚到的祝福! -janeb1126- 給 janeb1126 發送悄悄話 janeb1126 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 05/26/2023 postreply 19:23:44

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