I don't know what you're trying to say

本文內容已被 [ elfie ] 在 2023-03-29 11:53:27 編輯過。如有問題,請報告版主或論壇管理刪除.
回答: 原生家庭對人的影響是注定的寂寞的煙花2023-03-29 08:19:07

Of course people are influenced by their background, their caregivers, parents or even siblings.

But you cannot predict a person's growth path and where he/ she would be by their orginal families.

The proof is Abraham Lincoln had siblings but we didn't know much about them.

Weren't they raised by the same parents or step parents? Weren't they equally poor as children?

People's life trajectory is quite random sometimes. The people they met outside of their families are also

important influencers. And even siblings don't have exact life paths. So they got different outcomes.

Gender is another thing that defines a person's life path. Men and women are not being treated equally in

social, economical and culture aspects. So you really cannot predict how far a person can go in her career and 

achivement if it's a girl. There are three female supreme court judges. Why not anybody else then? 

Where are most of the girls ended up with? Probably at a job that is traditionally set for women, a teacher,

a nurse, or a caregiver, a mom. They are not being told to go that way explicitly. But that's how life works.

Men were hunters, women were gatherers, pickers, cooks at home. They still are even today.

 

所有跟帖: 

我在講原生家庭對個體命運的影響和關係,其實中國的智慧和文化早有總結:龍生龍,鳳生鳳。 -寂寞的煙花- 給 寂寞的煙花 發送悄悄話 寂寞的煙花 的博客首頁 (158 bytes) () 03/29/2023 postreply 12:56:23

煙花,如果你把輝煌的標杆定在那是傳世名人上,那我們這些芸芸眾生就是螻蟻。 -桃子蘋果- 給 桃子蘋果 發送悄悄話 桃子蘋果 的博客首頁 (256 bytes) () 03/29/2023 postreply 17:29:03

自薦我剛寫的回貼: -糯米粥- 給 糯米粥 發送悄悄話 糯米粥 的博客首頁 (129 bytes) () 03/29/2023 postreply 17:31:21

剛看了。對的。 -桃子蘋果- 給 桃子蘋果 發送悄悄話 桃子蘋果 的博客首頁 (279 bytes) () 03/29/2023 postreply 17:54:51

謝謝你們兩位。 -寂寞的煙花- 給 寂寞的煙花 發送悄悄話 寂寞的煙花 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/30/2023 postreply 05:12:42

請您先登陸,再發跟帖!