When you seek the opinion in the web, be polite. No one has obligation to answer you. No one said you stupid, but the way you express here, such as "shut up", does look like you stupid.
If you read my post carefully, what I suggest was you had to focus one the nature of your work and your role when you apply NIW. What I saw was you focus one your achievements, such as how many papers, how many presentations, and how many reviews you did. That do not justify "National Interests". These may add credit to your NIW application, but not enough.
You have to wrap yourself up with the importance of your project (national interest) and your role in the project (no other one can replace you).
If you feel you are well qualified, just go apply EB1.
Frankly to say, I do not have your achievement, but my I-140 approved without REF.
Just my two cents. Again, be polite to others. Rudeness will not help to get GC.