Help on fraud marriage

I MET A GIRL IN INTERNET AND GOT MARRIED 1.5 YEARS AGO IN CHINA. I BROUGHT HER TO THE STATES LAST SUMMER WITH H4 AND THEN APPLIED FOR I485 TOGETHER. THE STATUS IS PENDING. MY H1 WILL EXPIRES NEXT SUMMER. I WISHED WE WOULD HAVE HAPPY LIFE TOGETHER BASED ON I PLANNED.

HOWEVER, I FOUND SHE IS DOING UNFAITHFUL THINGS BEHIND ME, AND WANTS TO DIVIDE MY PROPERTY (BOUGHT BEFORE MARRIAGE, STILL UNDER MORTGAGE), GET GREEN CARD, AND SOME $$ WHEN DIVORCE. SHE IS NOT WORKING, NO ANY CONTRIBUTION TO THE FAMILY, BUT CAUSES LOTS OF PROBLEMS AND HEADACHE, WHICH IS NOT WHAT I EXPECTED FOR MY LIFE. I TRIED TO TALK TO HER AND SOLVE PROBLEMS, IT NEVER WORKED OUT BECAUSE OF THE DIFFERENCE OF BACKGROUND, EDUCATION, LIFE VALUE, ETC.

I WORK HARD TO SAVE ANY PENNY TO GET HALF OF MY HOUSE. SHE SPENDS JUST LESS THAN 2 YEARS WITH ME AND WANTS TO ENJOY WHAT I EARNED FROM HARD WORKING FOR MANY YEARS, AND SHE ALSO WANTS HER GREEN CARD AND DIVORCE. THIS IS REALLY SCARY.

Xiaobaitu, and any others, is this it? Can you give me a hand?

Many many thanks

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• 這完全取決於你,不用別人幫忙. -i751- ♂ (208 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 17:33:21

• 1000% agree with I751 回複：這完全取決於你,不用別人幫忙. -golfcat72- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 17:55:10

• 很方便！離婚！叫她回中國去！~ -小燕南南飛- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:10:37

• 你們沒有孩子嗎？生活習慣可能有不同，關鍵看你們的感情。 -f06li- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:16:25

• 現在不宜鬧翻，否則如果她真的是工於心計的那種人(看來像)很可能 -xiaobaitu- ♀ (22 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:21:01

• 兔Ｍ真是好ＭＭ！ -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:22:09

• 就因為她工於心計. -I751- ♂ (127 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:22:09

• 頂最後一句. -bbslover- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:46:00

• 不讚成，因為本來一起拿到綠卡是兩個人的共同利益，她至少在 -xiaobaitu- ♀ (210 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 08:17:30

• 同意兔兔。我覺得做人別太過好些，..................回複：不讚成，因為本來一起拿到綠卡是兩個人的共同利益，她至少 -MPOS- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 09:44:13

• 婚前沒有協議，你的財產她有一半份，這沒有辦法，這是law！ -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:21:28

• 那婚前的債務呢？是不是也有她一半？ -langxing- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:34:42

• 我的直覺告訴我應該也是！？ -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:38:55

• 那就好辦了，他正供著房子，債務也有她一半 -langxing- ♂ (18 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:42:24

• 瞎扯，人家要淨資產就行了。 -sleepbear- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:13:45

• 夥計上麵沒錯，隻是離婚時當然是估計和拆分淨資產囉！ -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:20:07

• 我也是覺得上麵二位就像繞圈子一樣，把自己都繞進去了 -f06li- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:16:57

• 她沒有工作. -I751- ♂ (36 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:19:22

• 有這一說法？似乎財產宜是夫妻雙方共同擁有！除非協議在先。 -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:22:09

• 離婚時法律可以保護沒工作的一方 -I751- ♂ (147 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:27:17

• 你們就知道財產財產的，替你們害臊。那我做個比方 -f06li- ♀ (156 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:40:55

• 法官會給這種情況至少一半的家產. -I751- ♂ (200 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:51:41

• 一個看上年輕漂亮，一個看上出國綠卡，就這麽簡單。 -f06li- ♀ (84 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:56:57

• 那就一個幫拿綠卡,一個不要財產算了. -i751- ♂ (26 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 20:08:48

• 是呀，如果向下麵說的，騙人家回國，總覺得對人家有些不公平 -f06li- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 20:12:53

• 要不樓主請你當調解人吧 -f06li- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 20:15:30

• ＭＭ高尚，讚一個，但這也生活中的一部分，特別是離婚時，沒法回避的事！ -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 02:47:34

• 哈哈，我也MM了 -f06li- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 10:56:04

• 你肯定現在挺痛苦的。但我想你當初肯定是看上人家年輕漂亮 -f06li- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:56:01

• 還是多安慰好！ -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:59:49

• 清官難斷家務事，我認識一個女孩，也是圖能出國， -f06li- ♀ (204 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:08:08

• 這孩子大氣，算女中豪傑！ -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:19:10

• 修正錯誤總得付出點代價 -toosad- ♀ (81 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:09:09

• 回複：Help on fraud marriage -jereco- ♂ (141 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:45:55

• 算你狠!:D -bbslover- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:48:22

• 回複：算你狠!:D -Jereco- ♂ (94 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:54:32

• Good job! -bbslover- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:59:32

• 替樓主謝謝你奉獻出如此寶貴的價格不非的經驗！看來他還真找的地方了？ -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 02:51:01

• 出這種主意的人缺乏頭腦，EB家屬和親屬移民的485不同，petitioner -xiaobaitu- ♀ (159 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 08:23:22

• 回複：出這種主意的人缺乏頭腦，EB家屬和親屬移民的485不同，petitioner -jereco- ♂ (208 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 13:35:16

• 趕快離吧兄弟 -kingman- ♂ (66 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 08:22:21

• 7~ l oser and narrow mind -zxcvbnmmlp- ♀ (131 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 10:13:05

• 回複：I had experince and may be helpful to you -Alan9900- ♂ (2820 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 19:19:29

• 回複：回複：I had experince and may be helpful to you -jereco- ♂ (66 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 20:19:56

• Talk with her again. -MMMD- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 20:42:08