Help me deicide whether or not to go back China, please!!!!!

Maybe I have only one chance to see my mother with lung and heart disease. Both my mother and I think she will pass away in a few months.
But I difficultly decide whether or not go back China, because of 3 reseans:
1. There are 4 heptatitis B in my big family
2. My wife has to take care of 2 sons, one 6 years old, the other one 19 months
3. I will be possible checked, because I transferred here from other State with H1B
In addition, if I get check for visa, you know this year is last year of my H1B, I have to extend H1B with 140 approval (PD 3/22/06).
Please give me your suggestions!!!!!!!
Thanks millions!!!!!!

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is your wife H1b too? -DO-PERM- 給 DO-PERM 發送悄悄話 DO-PERM 的博客首頁 (32 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:22:02

Both of us are H1 status -pooroldman- 給 pooroldman 發送悄悄話 (53 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:31:20

then it's very safe for u to go back to visit ur mom -DO-PERM- 給 DO-PERM 發送悄悄話 DO-PERM 的博客首頁 (75 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:05:40

No need to extend ur H1b, next May, long time to go -DO-PERM- 給 DO-PERM 發送悄悄話 DO-PERM 的博客首頁 (61 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:08:46

I can't do that, because I am principle GC applicant 回複:then it' -pooroldman- 給 pooroldman 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:11:11

u r 485 process has not start yet -DO-PERM- 給 DO-PERM 發送悄悄話 DO-PERM 的博客首頁 (200 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:15:07

you mean I can file 485 with H4回複:u r 485 process has not start -pooroldman- 給 pooroldman 發送悄悄話 (26 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:40:53

I guess that's the risk u have to take -DO-PERM- 給 DO-PERM 發送悄悄話 DO-PERM 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:38:43

thanks 回複:I guess that's the risk u have to take -pooroldman- 給 pooroldman 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:45:18

Extend your _H-1B first, then go back -Suggest!!- 給 Suggest!! 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:29:54

Mother may be gone when I get H1 extension -pooroldman- 給 pooroldman 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:28:24

don't apply extension for either of you before you travel -gc2020- 給 gc2020 發送悄悄話 (203 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:35:46

my wife is hard to take care of 2 kid if I am checked for visa回複 -pooroldman- 給 pooroldman 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:40:01

Get a baby-sitter to help your wife, or send your kid to day car -ilovemomidad- 給 ilovemomidad 發送悄悄話 (52 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:44:50

Your idea is great, I will get a baby-sitter回複:Get a baby-sitter -pooroldman- 給 pooroldman 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:50:27

I think you can use premium processing -ilovemomidad- 給 ilovemomidad 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:42:46

Sorry, I don't know what you mean, I only heard LC premium proce -pooroldman- 給 pooroldman 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:52:40

he meant h1b extension pp, but you don't need it now -gc2020- 給 gc2020 發送悄悄話 (129 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:56:37

thanks for your explanation, but sorry for misunderstanding his -pooroldman- 給 pooroldman 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:04:44

回複:Help me deicide whether or not to go back China, please!!!!! -phate2006- 給 phate2006 發送悄悄話 (217 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:33:29

排除萬難, 不要猶豫, 回去看看你的母親吧! -ilovemomidad- 給 ilovemomidad 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:34:19

CO-排除萬難, 不要猶豫, 回去看看你的母親吧! -sweetsweety- 給 sweetsweety 發送悄悄話 (29 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:55:29

Thank you very much, guys!!!!! I decide to go back China回複:CO-排除 -pooroldman- 給 pooroldman 發送悄悄話 (75 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:00:55

聯係醫生,打乙肝預防針. -mytwocentss- 給 mytwocentss 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:46:10

Thanks for your reminding me for vacciation, mytwocents!!!!!! -pooroldman- 給 pooroldman 發送悄悄話 (26 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:34:16

回複:Help me deicide whether or not to go back China, please!!!!! -苯人- 給 苯人 發送悄悄話 (239 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:47:45

回複:Help me deicide whether or not to go back China, please!!!!! -flypush- 給 flypush 發送悄悄話 (185 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:51:08

回複:Help me deicide whether or not to go back China, please!!!!! -yinyue- 給 yinyue 發送悄悄話 (73 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:54:08

I never got Hepatitis B immunization( from countryside) 回複:回複:He -pooroldman- 給 pooroldman 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:46:37

You have to go to see your mother last minute!!!!!!!!!!! -tamade- 給 tamade 發送悄悄話 (282 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:19:32

這種事情居然還要別人幫你考慮 -bpc2001- 給 bpc2001 發送悄悄話 (76 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:35:00

Did you have kids? how does your wife take care of 2 kids,回複:這種事 -pooroldman- 給 pooroldman 發送悄悄話 (36 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:56:31

find a baby sitter, specially your wife is a working mom -sweetsweety- 給 sweetsweety 發送悄悄話 (20 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:58:52

or take one kid with you go back to China -sweetsweety- 給 sweetsweety 發送悄悄話 (63 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:04:41

I am from far away countryside, my wife worries about missing my -pooroldman- 給 pooroldman 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:08:05

go back anyway! you can get everything back except mother. -9511- 給 9511 發送悄悄話 (9 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 15:16:38

我看了很難過,這些就是你不能回去看母親的理由?說得出口??? -小豬胖乎乎- 給 小豬胖乎乎 發送悄悄話 (48 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 16:21:15

H1-B , GC, you need all these just for making more money -sffamily- 給 sffamily 發送悄悄話 sffamily 的博客首頁 (52 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 17:05:32

你要是這樣就不去見你媽媽最後一麵的話。我從心裏鄙視你。 -wow66- 給 wow66 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 18:51:00

同感。一定要去看她,其他事情盡力而為,可以帶一個孩子回國。 -荷葉- 給 荷葉 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 20:13:52

你媽臨終,你居然還如此自私的考慮這些?不光是綠卡的問題! -Tanna- 給 Tanna 發送悄悄話 (616 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 22:57:59

They are 乙肝diseases, not 病毒攜帶者回複:你媽臨終,你居然還如此自私的考慮這些?不光是綠卡的問題! -pooroldman- 給 pooroldman 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 07/10/2007 postreply 11:27:21

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