Maybe I have only one chance to see my mother with lung and heart disease. Both my mother and I think she will pass away in a few months.
But I difficultly decide whether or not go back China, because of 3 reseans:
1. There are 4 heptatitis B in my big family
2. My wife has to take care of 2 sons, one 6 years old, the other one 19 months
3. I will be possible checked, because I transferred here from other State with H1B
In addition, if I get check for visa, you know this year is last year of my H1B, I have to extend H1B with 140 approval (PD 3/22/06).
Please give me your suggestions!!!!!!!
Thanks millions!!!!!!
Help me deicide whether or not to go back China, please!!!!!
所有跟帖:
• is your wife H1b too? -DO-PERM- ♂ (32 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:22:02
• Both of us are H1 status -pooroldman- ♀ (53 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:31:20
• then it's very safe for u to go back to visit ur mom -DO-PERM- ♂ (75 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:05:40
• No need to extend ur H1b, next May, long time to go -DO-PERM- ♂ (61 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:08:46
• I can't do that, because I am principle GC applicant 回複:then it' -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:11:11
• u r 485 process has not start yet -DO-PERM- ♂ (200 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:15:07
• you mean I can file 485 with H4回複:u r 485 process has not start -pooroldman- ♀ (26 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:40:53
• I guess that's the risk u have to take -DO-PERM- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:38:43
• thanks 回複:I guess that's the risk u have to take -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:45:18
• Extend your _H-1B first, then go back -Suggest!!- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:29:54
• Mother may be gone when I get H1 extension -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:28:24
• don't apply extension for either of you before you travel -gc2020- ♂ (203 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:35:46
• my wife is hard to take care of 2 kid if I am checked for visa回複 -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:40:01
• Get a baby-sitter to help your wife, or send your kid to day car -ilovemomidad- ♂ (52 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:44:50
• Your idea is great, I will get a baby-sitter回複:Get a baby-sitter -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:50:27
• I think you can use premium processing -ilovemomidad- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:42:46
• Sorry, I don't know what you mean, I only heard LC premium proce -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:52:40
• he meant h1b extension pp, but you don't need it now -gc2020- ♂ (129 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:56:37
• thanks for your explanation, but sorry for misunderstanding his -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:04:44
• 回複:Help me deicide whether or not to go back China, please!!!!! -phate2006- ♂ (217 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:33:29
• 排除萬難, 不要猶豫, 回去看看你的母親吧! -ilovemomidad- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:34:19
• CO-排除萬難, 不要猶豫, 回去看看你的母親吧! -sweetsweety- ♀ (29 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:55:29
• Thank you very much, guys!!!!! I decide to go back China回複:CO-排除 -pooroldman- ♀ (75 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:00:55
• 聯係醫生,打乙肝預防針. -mytwocentss- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:46:10
• Thanks for your reminding me for vacciation, mytwocents!!!!!! -pooroldman- ♀ (26 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:34:16
• 回複:Help me deicide whether or not to go back China, please!!!!! -苯人- ♀ (239 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:47:45
• 回複:Help me deicide whether or not to go back China, please!!!!! -flypush- ♂ (185 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:51:08
• 回複:Help me deicide whether or not to go back China, please!!!!! -yinyue- ♀ (73 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:54:08
• I never got Hepatitis B immunization( from countryside) 回複:回複:He -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:46:37
• You have to go to see your mother last minute!!!!!!!!!!! -tamade- ♀ (282 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:19:32
• 這種事情居然還要別人幫你考慮 -bpc2001- ♂ (76 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:35:00
• Did you have kids? how does your wife take care of 2 kids,回複:這種事 -pooroldman- ♀ (36 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:56:31
• find a baby sitter, specially your wife is a working mom -sweetsweety- ♀ (20 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:58:52
• or take one kid with you go back to China -sweetsweety- ♀ (63 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:04:41
• I am from far away countryside, my wife worries about missing my -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:08:05
• go back anyway! you can get everything back except mother. -9511- ♂ (9 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 15:16:38
• 我看了很難過,這些就是你不能回去看母親的理由?說得出口??? -小豬胖乎乎- ♀ (48 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 16:21:15
• H1-B , GC, you need all these just for making more money -sffamily- ♂ (52 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 17:05:32
• 你要是這樣就不去見你媽媽最後一麵的話。我從心裏鄙視你。 -wow66- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 18:51:00
• 同感。一定要去看她,其他事情盡力而為,可以帶一個孩子回國。 -荷葉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 20:13:52
• 你媽臨終,你居然還如此自私的考慮這些?不光是綠卡的問題! -Tanna- ♀ (616 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 22:57:59
• They are 乙肝diseases, not 病毒攜帶者回複:你媽臨終,你居然還如此自私的考慮這些?不光是綠卡的問題! -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/10/2007 postreply 11:27:21